soo i'm not entirely sure if i'm using this right but hmm i'll just start with this.
i just got my first binder and i'm not sure if it's the correct size? like if its safe for me to wear and everything?
i measured my chest correctly just as instructed and made sure to order the size said on the sizing chart but when i got it it seemed.. very small. like VERY. i got an x small tank and i know thats, yknow, extra small, but it still only goes to just barely past my chest? and when i put it on i literally couldnt get it on without tearing the stitching kinda..(i was very desperate for it to fit)
i wore it for 4 and a half hours today while i was out and it was so uncomfortable. i know it's not gonna be ever really 'comfortable' but it felt kinda restricting and the left side of my chest kinda ached. and even hours after i've come home and taken it off it feels a little ... bruised i guess? in my upper chest.
also near the end of the time the edges sort of under my arms were hurting me and it still feels kinda weird. is this okay?? is it normal to feel this way at the beginning? i'll be so disappointed if i shouldn't wear it like this but i also don't want to be actually really damaging myself.(PS i'm really sorry if this isn't how to use this i've never really used a forum but this is the only place i know i can ask ;_; )