At last! Well, not exactly as I am about three months now but I have been thinking about this for a long time. I had a few guys in mind months ago but they all have seemed to disappear and the one guy I was most interested in turns out to be married although I wouldn't totally rule that out.
Primarily I like girls but I want a possible long term relationship in that regard, right now I just need a human dilator.

There is a young black guy at Costco who has been flirting with me for two years, even before I lost weight, he saw me today, with me my new cleavage and nice figure and it looked like his eyes were going to pop out of his head. He followed me to my car and came up and chatted me up. He had asked if he could call me two years ago and I made the mistake of giving him my number. And he never called. This time I got his number.
Anyway, he is like twenty years younger than me but he says he doesn't really think about age. So it looks like he may be my first, I think I will wait a day or two before calling him. I am just hoping he is not real big, I think I can handle him as long as he is not huge. Actually if he is really huge, I can please him in other ways. Compared to my skills, Linda Lovelace was a piker.