i think that the people treating you different after finding out should suck it up and deal. you're not any different at work than you usually are, so if they have a problem, it's their own problem, and usually they get over it after a long enough time interacting with you. see if you can't just keep doing your jobs as is.
sex work hasn't got a very strong advancement curve, especially in this hyper-niche market of trans models/dancers or whatever you wanna be. the problem is that it's gonna really annoy you. i say this not as speculation but experience because i dealt with the junky attitudes and personas of hecklers and demanders and overall jerks. and all we can really do is smile and try to brush them off with some sort of witty remark. but in seriousness, for some cis girls, it's enjoyable or pleasant. much of that goes out the window when being trans is involved, because society just doesn't hold us to be as "human" as cis people. so they are like, infinitely more likely to treat you poorly. cis girls, that's empowering for some of them, but for trans girls, it's much more rare to feel empowered by sex work and much more common to just be exhausted and frustrated. trans sex work's pinnacles barely reach the mid level opportunity and standard of living of the pinnacles of cis sex work. that's just something that we can't control since society thinks of cis and trans people that way.