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Bashful and happy clerk at a store?

Started by Wild Flower, December 02, 2016, 06:40:55 PM

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Wild Flower

The clerk said, "You're must had like it", as I pick up the beef jerky, and I realize she must had remember my face before since I purchase it few weeks prior. Curly brown hair draped over shoulders as she smiled but then there was slight hesitations in her facial muscles. She gaze into my eyes longer than people should, and I feel I had to look away ever so often to avoid it being awkward like Ashlee Simpson doing a ho-dance when she forget her lyrics. But I think she was attracted to me, because she said, "Are you married?" when talking about work. And then she said, I wouldn't marry money though, but my better half what not.

She said, "You go girl get that money." when telling her my job prospective. I look, talk as a man, but I guess there was something unconscious in her response because it was so automatic, she must not had thought it before saying it, and she didn't take it back.

She then ask me, "Are you coming back soon?"

I said, "Yes, but sometime next week"

and then said, "Oh, I work mornings, well goodbye."
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Do you think she said, "you go girl" because she thought unconsciously I was a woman??
"Anyone who believes what a cat tells him deserves all he gets."
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Angélique LaCava

You did say you haven't started living as female. Maybe she just thought you was a gay guy. I know many girls who say "you go girl" to their gay friends.

You seriously read way too much into situations. So I'll say it again.... look into getting a therapist to help with everything your going through.
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Shauna89

Quote from: Angélique LaCava on December 02, 2016, 06:49:03 PM
You did say you haven't started living as female. Maybe she just thought you was a gay guy. I know many girls who say "you go girl" to their gay friends.

You seriously read way too much into situations.

I'm leaning towards this ... I still dress/present as male and a lot of people greet me with "hey baby doll / boo boo / precious / what's up buttercup" ext... and I just assume they're reading me as gay.
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Wild Flower

Quote from: Angélique LaCava on December 02, 2016, 06:49:03 PM
You did say you haven't started living as female. Maybe she just thought you was a gay guy. I know many girls who say "you go girl" to their gay friends.

You seriously read way too much into situations. So I'll say it again.... look into getting a therapist to help with everything your going through.

Thank you. I need too. :)
"Anyone who believes what a cat tells him deserves all he gets."
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Wild Flower

Quote from: IDONTEVENKNOW on December 02, 2016, 09:06:48 PM
I'm leaning towards this ... I still dress/present as male and a lot of people greet me with "hey baby doll / boo boo / precious / what's up buttercup" ext... and I just assume they're reading me as gay.

I never thought of it like that.... I get the buttercup one (not too often), but some people tell me dear, sweetheart (that's been a while).

I also gave her a dull princess wave *which is what I do without thinking*.

She probably did read me as gay. I am just assuming she read "my mind" lol. Oh gawd lol.
"Anyone who believes what a cat tells him deserves all he gets."
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Angélique LaCava

Quote from: Wild Flower on December 02, 2016, 11:53:54 PM
I never thought of it like that.... I get the buttercup one (not too often), but some people tell me dear, sweetheart (that's been a while).

I also gave her a dull princess wave *which is what I do without thinking*.

She probably did read me as gay. I am just assuming she read "my mind" lol. Oh gawd lol.
sweetheart, and dear dosnt mean they read you as gay.
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