Do y'all think a guy would lie to you about being their first transgender?

[Angélique LaCava]

Let's say you ask a guy if they have fooled around with a transgender before, do y'all think a guy would lie to you about it or be truthful?

[Denise]

If this was a binary question "lie" or "truth" I would lean towards the "lie" for this one.

Now the gray area - It depends upon how comfortable they are with themselves and what your relationship is with this guy. 

[Angélique LaCava]

If this was a binary question "lie" or "truth" I would lean towards the "lie" for this one.

Now the gray area - It depends upon how comfortable they are with themselves and what your relationship is with this guy.

lets say you just met them and they consider themselves open minded. (From personal experience) say something on the lines of "there's a first for everything".

[Angélique LaCava]

wouldnt a guy think in most cases someone would want someone with experience?

[Jill E]

I think some would lie; some women do too.

Be careful of anyone who comes across as a ->-bleeped-<- or anyone that you feel is fetishizing you. It can get creepy AF and even feel degrading as the relationship continues. In general, if something throws up a red flag for you, pay attention to it.


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[Angélique LaCava]

I think some would lie; some women do too.

Be careful of anyone who comes across as a ->-bleeped-<- or anyone that you feel is fetishizing you. It can get creepy AF and even feel degrading as the relationship continues. In general, if something throws up a red flag for you, pay attention to it.


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what would you consider a red flag?

[DawnOday]

what would you consider a red flag?

An erection is usually a good indicator. Wanting to leave after just meeting, Let's go somewhere private.

Mod Edit- no Bashing. Bashing is against TOS 10.

[Devlyn]

  Locked for review.

[Mariah]

 
Okay folks I can understand sharing things to watch out for, but off hand remarks that bash one gender or another is against TOS 10. It's bashing, plain and simple. Lets please Remember TOS 5, 10, and 15. Thread unlocked.

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