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Weird trip to the store and being treated like a girl

Started by Larisa, April 25, 2018, 07:17:17 PM

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Larisa

Okay so Ive not transitioned yet. Ive done some stuff but nothing huge! However my long hair seems to make me look more like the girl I am due to my low t making me look more female in my face and body. That and my girl mannerisms and all come very naturally when Im not hiding them.

I had guys treating me so different than they normally do. Not all but many did. Like one guy stepped out of the way so I could go and was basically coming on to me. I had other guys doing that kind of stuff to me. It was a weird feeling because normally many guys are not that nice to me. I could get used to being treated like a princess!!

I wonder what it would be like if when I actually transition.



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Allison S

Ooh sounds fun! Yeah guys can't help it I guess. I haven't gotten too much of this treatment but it does sound kinda nice. I agree I think it definitely means you're seen as female

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Doreen

I'm not attracted to guys as a whole, but its always sweet when one holds the door open for you, calls you mam, holds your hand, etc.

It gets better the further along you are.  Soon you'll be due  :angel:
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justarandomname2

That's awesome Larisa!

Just recently, I was out when I noticed a guy sneaking peeks at me.  My first thought was "What the f~ is this guy looking at? Want to start something?" 

Then I realized " Oh yeah...I'm in girl mode.... "

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krobinson103

Quote from: justarandomname2 on April 25, 2018, 08:12:52 PM
That's awesome Larisa!

Just recently, I was out when I noticed a guy sneaking peeks at me.  My first thought was "What the f~ is this guy looking at? Want to start something?" 

Then I realized " Oh yeah...I'm in girl mode.... "

I remember about 3 months ago when my breasts really started to come in I was wearing a tight t-shirt walking down the street. Dude on a motorcycle goes by stares hard out, turns around does the same thing then goes on his way. I was thinking do I have an extra head or something? Then I realized what he was actually looking at. Lol it takes a bit of getting used to.
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josie76

It is definitely different!
Yesterday I stopped to get gas in a can for the lawn mower. I was trying to tighten the pour spout back on and an older guy pulled up to the other side of the pump, got out and asked if I needed help getting the can open. I told him I got it, said thanks and put it in the back of the pickup and left.

Life sure is different now.  ;)
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RobynTx

I know the feeling.  I had a gentleman open the door for me at a gas station the other day and I felt very awkward. My spouse just shook her head and said get used to it.


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SailorMars1994

Weird? More like awesome!! You're so lucky! I came out in 2014 and only in 2017 did the general public start to gender me properly near all the time
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Admitted to self : 2010
Came out: May 12 2014
Estrogen: October 16 2015
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Donna

I'm still trying to get my head around guys holding the door open for me. It's so weird as I'm always trying to  do it for other people.
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December 2015 noticed strange feelings moving in
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Anne Blake

Guys in general doing it is one thing, now several friends and even my son will get the door for me or carry my suitcase when I am getting ready for travel....it is fun but too strange at times. Except when the suitcase is heavy, then I love it.

Tia Anne
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