The MtF ladies will have to tell you about training therapy for changing gender behavior.
For many of us, our brains are hardwired by the opposite gender prenatal hormones to do those behaviors anyway, without coaching. For instance, my ex husband had the slinky female walk naturally, while I tend to bounce along like teenaged boy athlete.
I had many male behaviors that I did naturally and didn't even notice, including getting up in the morning and scratching my non-existent b_lls, wanting to tease around, crack jokes, play practical jokes, or play soccer with my friends (usually male), talk politics and sports, wanting to bet tiny amounts on any sort of conflict, including battling beetles, being direct and confrontive, tending to take up a lot of space and sit with spread legs, as males do.
Female behaviors (some negative) hard-wired into my ex..serious, earnest, little sense of humor, ironed his shirt and pants each day before work, followed the rules, very modest, religious, extremely close to his mother, telling her everything, gossipy, crossed his legs, sat very small, tended to get emotional, dressed impeccably, critical, picky, passive-aggressive, devious.
Yoga always helps everything, including transition, but in my case, I also take a local Thai evergreen herb used here for back pain..derris scandens. It not only gets rid of dyslexia symptoms, it gets rid of most of my dysphoria.
I don't know about people going different trans directions being attracted, but it was so in my case. Perhaps that's why we had so much in common, or maybe the female in him fell for the male in me and/or vise versa. Now that I'm out to myself, I realize that I'm attracted to mixed gender people-especially transwomen types. I usually can't be in a relationship with cis females very long because of their instinctive bossiness, and jealous, controlling natures.
I didn't like the dangerous jealousy of my ex either, which is one reason we parted in 2010.
