Also...
Other than potential for discovery of the activity on the site, something use of Tor should prevent, this is a very safe place. Trolls free; you will be welcomed by psychologically healthy, intelligent, insightful people eager to help. It's like joining a very large family for the most part.
Speak freely. As long as you are respectful and earnest, you will be received with warmth and grace here. No thought police, no political correctness trolls in my experience. We collectively bring some of our deepest concerns here for discussion and the helpful insights from other members as well as discuss some fun, sometime more frivolous things. It's a pleasant mix.
Steph