Have you ever gotten the your so brave comment

[RobynD]

I have several times. I don't like it but i accept it as kindly as i can. I do think it is an example of both ignorance and recognition of what we face in opposition. Like most of us I think, " is it brace to preserve my life?, isn't that how we are all wired? "

[Nina_Ottawa]

Many times, and when someone says it, I quickly say it wasn't brave, it's what I had to do to regain my sanity and well being.

[Paige]

Brave: adjective - ready to face and endure danger or pain; showing courage.

Courage: noun -    the ability to do something that frightens one.

There's definitely societal dangers involved in transitioning.  If you choose surgery there's definitely pain to overcome.  Dealing with rejection from family members or friends can be quite painful.

I really understand the fear of transitioning.  I don't seem to have the courage at the moment to overcome that fear.  It seems most who transition have gotten past that fear.  Sounds like courage to me.

I think it should be taken as a compliment.   

My two cents,
Paige

[Fresas con Nata]

I think the opposite is true, I'd be brave if I had to conceal everything I feel, if I had to dress like a man for the rest of my life. Coming out is the easy way.