Won't it be a wonderful thing when gender-variance is handled matter-of-factly as a matter of due course for all kids? It is also my hope that such a day comes sooner than later, but all medical progress tends to take a looong time to become standard procedure. Doctors trained in the old days just don't usually keep up with the medical literature, and keep practicing medicine as they were taught, it seems. This is also true with mental health professionals, especially when it comes to condition beyond their training and comprehension.
Still, it is sooo lovely to see the winds of change blowing sooo hard, and even if only one child escapes a fate like mine or so many others here, that is a very, very good thing!
Missy