I am 58 and just discovered that I have the wrong anatomy and want to be a woman. After 31 years of marriage, this came as a huge shock to my wife, but the disappearance of my depression due to repression of my true self, which was ruining our marriage, has finally made her more accepting and understanding. She says, "She loves spending time with me!" She still doesn't want the visuals of me crossdressing, but today she said that as long as I keep it private, I shouldn't be ashamed to put those things on. Shame is definitely a big part of coming out. And as luck would have it, the Gap was having a sale on lace panties ~ 3 for $27!!!
