First of all, I don't know that this is in the right section, because I don't know if I was
truely discriminated against..but here goes...
Alright, so last week I got a great job offering at the local grocery here in Florida (Publix). I've heard nothing but good things about the company and how great they are to work for. They went over the pay with me, benefits, blah blah and it all sounded really good. They had said somethin about my hair needing to be cut, and I said I couldn't do it. Well the guy who interviewed me said they could work something out, such as wearing a hat or something. That's what I currently do at Subway...Anways, I was fine with that. My hair isn't extremely long, it's almost that typical emo cut. Long bangs, not as long in the back, about the middle on the sides...But it's just not quite long enough to pull back, ya know?
So yesterday I went back in to fill out some paperwork, everything went great. The lady told me again I'd need to cut my hair above my ears, and again we compromised on wearing a hat. Great. I was fine with that.
Today, "David" I guess the head manager of the grocery dept. called me in, (David is above the other 2 people I talked to) Well he told me once again, I'd need to cut my hair. This time, not wanting to compromise with anything. He said it must be shaved on the sides, and in the back. I refuse that style of hair, for I've had it before, and absolutely hate it. Now I don't care if I look like a complete idiot at work, that's fine. It's just work, but I feel I should be able to present myself however I want outside of work, and some sort of compromise could have been made. Ugh it irritates me everytime I think about it!
Also, I understand "Company Policy" forbids guy's from their hair being to long I guess? But walking out the store I saw TWO other males with hair over there ears! How fair is that? Basically what it boils down to for me is it's soo unfair that women can wear their hair HOWEVER they want for the job. Buzzed, down to their butt, HOWEVER they want, they are allowed to style it. Me on the other hand, I have to conform to whatever they say, and look like THEM. Them being David, who's hair is totally shaved.
Anyways, I don't think their is anything I can do about it, since I guess it's company policy. One thing I didn't do was ask to see where in their book thing where it states that, which I probably shold of. I was just to upset when the incident took place..
If anyone lives in Florida, or knows of organizations that can help with something like this, or any input at all on the situation would be greatly apperciated.
Thanks to anyone that just read this long post that doesn't apply to them at all.
-Monica.