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a few RLE moments that make me chuckle

Started by Nina_Ottawa, January 24, 2017, 02:15:31 PM

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Nina_Ottawa

Transition is up and down, but me being the glass half full kind of gal, I tend to remember the lighter side of transitioning. I remember:

The time I visited a winery in Niagara-on-the-Lake, Ontario. After sampling a couple wines, I had to use the washroom. Being a winery, course the bathrooms didn't have your basic men and female sign...they were artsy-like. Looking at the doors, I was trying to tell which was the female, and figuring I had a 50/50 chance, I put my hand on the door, and about to open, when I heard the voice of a kid say "lady, that's the boys bathroom!" Lol

The time I went for my first mammogram. While standing there with my boob in between the glass plates, the technician asked if I was comfortable. For some reason I blurted out "now, if only they could figure out how to do a mammogram and prostate exam at the same time, we'd be in business." Lol, she laughed.

First time driving as Nina way back in 2008, I accidentally cut off a guy who was trying to squeeze in front of me. He was mad, got out of his car, came to my window which I rolled down. "Where'd you learn to drive woman?" I laughed and said "thank you!"

The time I wrote a letter to my ex-wife telling her I was trans, and included a pic of me. I handed this this letter and said watch some tv show that day about a husband who decided to become a woman. Two days later, her mom contacted her and said she had seen a tv show, and couldn't help but think that I could be like that. I recall my ex telling her mom "mom, have I got a story for you." While married, never thought I gave off vibes, but maybe mother-in-laws are more perceptive than I thought.

First time following my GRS, my family doctor seeing my woo-hoo for the first time. I am her first patient who's gone through surgery. Lying back, legs spread, she said "amazing, just amazing." Dr. brassard enjoyed me sharing that experience with him a few weeks later for a routine follow up.

Love to hear your funny experiences or RLE that made you happy.

Nina
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MissGendered

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My gyno/endo, who is also a trans/intersex specialist, had a similar reaction when he saw my vajajay the first time. "I don't know who your surgeon was, but he is an artist". I told him it was Brassard, then I proceeded to complain about some things that needed revision, in my mind, at least, and he laughed, and said "this may seem like a strange thing to say, but you might want to go online and google 'wall of vaginas', I think that's what it is called, yours looks fine'..

I went on to complain about the 12-18 hairs inside, as he was 'looking in', and he said he couldn't see any anywhere. I am very blonde, so I guess they were hard to see. I was in pieces at the time, cuz of DID, ya know, and the alter present said something like "well, you may not see them, but if a guy FEELS them in there when he is doing me, he will know that something is very different about me, and he might kill me"...

He looked up from between my legs, looked me right in the eyes, and said "Honey, any man doing you is going to be far too excited to notice any such thing"...

The nurse's eyes bugged out when he said that, and it was maybe a bit inappropriate, but it was exactly what I needed to know, and from a man's perspective..

Missy
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ainsley

My Dr. is an OB/GYN and has delivered many a baby over her 40 years of being a doctor.  I am her only patient to have GRS and when she did my first exam she looked and said "You would never know..." and that was such a relief.  Brassard did a good job!

At my first mammogram when it squeezed my breast, I leaked milk all over the glass table.  The tech just came over and wiped it up and said you had some discharge hun, nothing to worry about.

Last year at my mammogram the tech said "Ainsley, do you realize your breasts have grown"?  I said, why, yes I do!  She said they had almost doubled in size from the last year's mammogram.  success!

My oldest son (21) said his roommates refer to my wife, my son's birth mother, as MomOG and me as NewMom so they call tell who he is talking about in conversation.  success!
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MissGendered

Quote from: MissGendered on January 24, 2017, 02:27:04 PM
I went on to complain about the 12-18 hairs inside, as he was 'looking in'..

I was told to just pull them out, btw, and after 12-15 pull sessions, I am down to two, so a small price to pay to avoid electro down there, lol..
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HappyMoni

Back when I was doing the old gender hop/swap, I  had to dress in guy work clothes on the way to the beach. I went to a restaurant and headed for the bathroom. An older fellow just about jumped out of his skin to stop me from going to the  men's room. All I could think to whisper was "it's okay." As I headed in, his mouth dropped. The sad part is the next day, I was dressed  in woman's clothes and a waiter called me "ma'am" only to be followed by "Oh sorry sir! We get people in here all the time and you can't tell what they are! Yuk yuk." Real funny genius.
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Nina, glad you are keeping "abreast of your prostate health." Sorry I feel like a real boob for saying that.
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Inarasarah

Quote from: Nina_Ottawa on January 24, 2017, 02:15:31 PM
First time following my GRS, my family doctor seeing my woo-hoo for the first time. I am her first patient who's gone through surgery. Lying back, legs spread, she said "amazing, just amazing." Dr. brassard enjoyed me sharing that experience with him a few weeks later for a routine follow up.

I had this experience as well, except my doctor has a LOT of trans patients, but she constantly tells me how impressed she is with the work.  So I am apparently holding up over time :)

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KarynMcD

I still laugh whenever a guy runs to get to a door before I do so that he can hold it open.
The other day a guy almost tripped over himself trying to get to the door before me.
;D
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Michelle_P

I've posted before on getting 'the look' from others.  I don't think I've mentioned before that the past month or so I've been getting a different sort of look [emoji102]...

I've caught older men, some gray hair, looking me up and down. It's not the face they're looking at, either!  Now, they (men) aren't my type, but this is flattering and a bit of a confidence builder.

Just looked up and there's a guy checking me out right now! 


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patrick1967

I work in retail and have quite a few regular customers. I have basically been gradually altering the appearance to a more masculine look over the past year while still officially presenting as female so most of my customers have adapted to me. I had a new customer at the desk that i was helping out and as he left the regular behind him in line stepped up laughing. "Damn, he called you Sir. Must be the hair" He stood there shaking his head as I chuckled and replied "Not the first time, and it certainly won't be the last"
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josie76

Quote from: Michelle_P on January 27, 2017, 07:02:03 PM
I've posted before on getting 'the look' from others.  I don't think I've mentioned before that the past month or so I've been getting a different sort of look [emoji102]...

I've caught older men, some gray hair, looking me up and down. It's not the face they're looking at, either!  Now, they (men) aren't my type, but this is flattering and a bit of a confidence builder.

Just looked up and there's a guy checking me out right now! 


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Both my wife and my therapist mentioned that could happen some day. I was totally unprepared to even think about that. The concept that a guy would ever look at me that way was surprising at best. I told my therapist and my wife when she said it that I only ever wished to just be myself. I can't even imagine that other situation happening. It's just a strange concept to digest.
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sarah1972

I remember the first time that happened to me. I was only out to my wife, not on HRT. Wearing a skinny jeans and purple nail polish. Caught a guy staring at my butt. My heart jumped... It was a mix of being proud and happy and the thought of "Oh that is how it feels" and being disturbed by it. His look when I stared him in the eyes and he realized he was wrong was priceless...

That was also when I noticed how I have changed. My interest is now mostly "where did she get these cute shows" and :how can I do such a great makeup"...

Quote from: Michelle_P on January 27, 2017, 07:02:03 PM
I've posted before on getting 'the look' from others.  I don't think I've mentioned before that the past month or so I've been getting a different sort of look [emoji102]...

I've caught older men, some gray hair, looking me up and down. It's not the face they're looking at, either!  Now, they (men) aren't my type, but this is flattering and a bit of a confidence builder.

Just looked up and there's a guy checking me out right now! 


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