Would it seem then that our task in building a supportive community here and, in real life, is to openly acknowledge one another? That we can clearly see you and welcome everyone to the table. There is no shortage of love but the challenge is to really feel empathy and compassion for one another.
A good group facilitator ensures everyone gets a chance to speak or be recognized before the big mouths. like me, dominate the conversation. This is not just fairness or a reference to Roberts Rules of Order but a way to build trust and gain confidence personally and as a community.
Are we really threatened by another's success? Can we appreciate the determination and dedication that it takes to get to any personal goal? You worked hard to get here, you're wonderful!