Hi. I'm new here

[MeTony]

Hi all. I've been lurking here and there. Searched for a good transgender site and I think I found it.

I am semi-open transgender FtM. I crossdress a lot. People are getting used to see me as a guy. But they don't know what is yet to come.

I have one huge thing that blocks my chances to transform into me, my husband since 18 years. We have kids. Kids will understand. They are openminded. My teenager knows I'm transgender. my husband knows I am bisexual. But that is much about it. Maybe he suspects something because of how I dress and my haircut. But these things are so hard to talk about. I don't want him to feel betrayed. And he is not gay. Well technically he is. But he does not know that.

Coming here for support and knowledge.

Looking forward to get to know you

Toni

[Floof]

Hi welcome!

You definitely came to the right place, lots of very kind and helpful people on here

I've never married myself, but I can imagine how difficult it must be to open the conversation about something like this.. Seems like you have your mind quite set on this being what you want for yourself though, so its an important conversation to have; perhaps sooner rather than later. Regardless of how you chose to travel, I wish you all the best on your journey once again welcome!

<3

[MeTony]

Thank you very much. I realized who I am 10 years ago. I got a name for it. But a lot of things happened in life and I had to put myself on hold. But now things get itchy and wants to get out.

I have always bonded to the guys, even at work.


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[MeTony]

Strange thing is that everyone accepts me as I am now. A little bit of both. I wonder if they will accept me as a guy? Or if I will scare people away.


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[Floof]

 I should hope you will be fine, maybe a bit of an adjustment for them but they'll get around to it. Should mention your phone seems to auto-send "sent from my iphone" in Swedish.. IDK if you are comfortable revealing that detail, may wana edit it out if not and I'll def remove any mention on your say so! But Sweden is a very inclusive and liberal country, so if thats where your at I really do think you will receive very wide acceptance. I'm from Norway myself

[MeTony]

How do I get rid of that text on Tapatalk? But I'm ok with it. It is no secret I'm swedish. Sooner or later someone will know me anyway.  This is a small world.

Norway is a nice country. I was in a boat floating through the fjords in Stavanger some years ago. It was amazing.

People at work seem openminded. We have some gay people working there and they are accepted.


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[MeTony]

I managed to find the settings for my signature. Will edit it when I figure out some signature I want.

[Lunacorn]

Coming here for support and knowledge.

Looking forward to get to know you

Hiya good thing to come in search of ... knowledge I dont have for Trans men yet definitly willing to be there when a need for support.  Ya on irc as well?

[V M]

Hi Toni 

Welcome to Susan's Place    Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

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Hugs

V M

[MeTony]

@Lunacorn I have mutter, an app to use irc. Have not logged in there for a long time though. I'll soon check that out too.

Thank you both for the welcome. [emoji4]

[Lunacorn]

cool, i just notice sometimes irc is a decent place to get quick answers.  Though so far seems this one is a more social channel? not sure yet just my first impression