High all, I have not been on in a long time, I think 2015 was the last time. I purged
In order to save my marriage and buried myself in work and my wife finally had it and we went together to a gender therapists and I started hormones. It started when I was out in the hospital for an auto immune response to a tumor in my brain almost killed me. I was in Shamrock, Texas working woke up early in the most pain I've ever been in, and found out I'm allergic to testosterone basically. So the hospital put me on t blockers and told me to see a specialist. Got referred to the Kirkland clinic at uab in Birmingham, Al. Turns out I'm xxy intersexed and I was shocked. I had always told my wife I was transgender and I couldn't believe I was xxy. So I still had to see a therapist for them to give me estrogen. Standards of care bs again. How does standards of care for transgender people apply to an intersex person? Also it should be an easier process for trans people also. So got the approval letter started estrogen and they changed my t blocker from finesteride to spiro. Here I am about 7 months later happy as a clam. For those who read some of my old posts my gender was a huge problem for my wife at one time. She has since became extremely passionately attracted to Elizabeth. I took her middle name for my first name.
We send each other random love notes, we can't keep our hands off each other. We're madly in love with each other. I never believed I would have a fairy tale life. Be called by the woman I loved her wife to people by her. So everyone scared of transition because of a spouse, talk to her or him, my wife is going to post in a few days in more depth about our story. We're so happy togeather. We didn't even know we could be this close as we always have been. But I am and have never been in as much love with someone than I m now. We have so many emotional moments, long hugs and fall asleep in each other's arms. I drive a semi and I miss her hair caressing my face when I wake up. And her smell. I am so grateful to Susan's for all the advice and as a safe space when I had no where else to go and no one to talk to. I got so much great advice from a lot of people here. Again thank you all. And any questions are welcome I'll answer any question for anyone.
