Okay, another update, now four months since surgery — I'll probably update again at maybe 6, 9, and 12 months or something like that.
I'll start with the issues not related to numbness:
I'm now at the point where all the bones should be healed completely, and it feels that way pretty much. There's a tiny bit of tenderness if I push on the parts of my chin and jaw that were contoured, and just *barely* on my brow area. There's still a bit of swelling on the front of the chin and tenderness if I poke at it. I can definitely still feel the scars on the inside of my mouth. The cheeks are totally not something I notice unless I try to, but the lower lip incision is still a little annoying, and kind of pulls a bit if I make faces (or, say, get some food stuck there and try to move it with my tongue).
The forehead scar is almost unnoticeable when you look at it — just a touch bumpy, not on the surface, but under the skin. There are a couple parts that are a bit more noticeable, but just barely. For a bit I got some pimples associated with the scar line which I guess is a thing, and that's done now. Most were in the area hidden by the hair. I probably wouldn't do well with a shaved head, but the part in front of the hairline is pretty much unnoticeable at this point, even if I pull my hair back — of course, there are some short hairs, ones that got cut in the surgery, which is a little annoying.
Okay, as for the numbness:
I would say that it's going quite well. I still notice it if I pay attention, but I'm not getting weird shooting feelings or whatever anymore. I can feel heat and cold and sharp pokes and gentle touch just fine, but definitely not 100%. Soft touch especially still feels off, kind of a bit like an electric spark that radiates out from the place where I touch my scalp. There's still a little itching, but it's easy to sooth by scratching the actual place that itches, not the raw nerve ending that was severed in the surgery.
For an overall scorecard, I would say the numbness is about 50% recovered. Forehead scar, maybe 75%. Forehead itself, 100%. Oral incisions, 60%. Chin, 85%. Jawline, 100%.
A fun little thing happened today at church. A woman I've known for many years came up to me during coffee hour and told me that I was just looking more and more beautiful every time she sees me, and she didn't know what I'm doing, but it's working. I just smiled and said thank you. Of course what I was thinking was, "Yeah, tens of thousands of dollars of plastic surgery — it had better be working!" (Also being back on HRT after being off for a while helps a lot too.)