Lol. So I'm the type of person that is always thinking everyone is looking at me, I always think i stick out like a sore thumb, so i'm always paranoid, and afraid to go out in public.
The other day I had no choice but to leave my comfort zone and go to the DMV and get a new ID.
A few days later i'm talking to this other tgirl that I met online, and she tells me she saw me up there, and she was checking me out, and did not realize I was trans

Made much of my paranoia just disappear. It was nice to get some confidence back after 4.5 years full time.