Well Welcome Kat and SO
I'm Jeanette self appointed part time unofficial greeter. Both of you come on in and have a seat on the loveseat over there ----> Make yourselves at home, grab some beverages and read some posts. By all means ask your questions. You'll get some answers from the many knowledgeable folks here (not from me mind you I'm new and know nothing yet). Feel free to make some comments and also post about yourself and your SO so we may get to know you both.
As I said I'm Jeanette, 64 newly MTF and recently trained in HRT pill popping. (Started in December), Life long crossdresser. Very much in the closet yet. 'nuff said about me though. The moderators will be along shortly with helpful links and your official greeting.
Hugs,
Jeanette