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Fear of femininity?

Started by ImSomething, March 16, 2017, 12:40:01 AM

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Janes Groove

Quote from: ImSomething on March 16, 2017, 12:40:01 AM
Have others had this experience? Could this just be part of an internalized homophobia/transphobia?

I remember the first couple of days after I went full time (the day after I came out) it felt a little weird.  For like 5 minutes.
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Dani

Quote from: josie76 on March 16, 2017, 07:15:25 AM
OH YES!

I totally did that for my entire life. Avoidance of ANYTHING that could be feminine so no one would see the real me underneath.

To quote a movie line, I lived by "Keep is secret.Keep it safe".

Same here ladies. I tried to be super macho with the fast cars, motorcycles, guns, boats and airplanes.
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Rfisher0175

I know I'm not the op but all the comments help. Thanks ladies!

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ImSomething

I really appreciate the feedback, girls. I look to this thread every time I have a problem with denial and repression. It immediately makes me feel more comfortable with my identity and gives me more strength to push through. :)
xoxo
Renée
Began HRT: 1-5-2018
Involuntary HRT hiatus: 3-7-18 - 3-28-18
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Steph Eigen

I am faculty in a major research university where many of my colleagues are highly accomplished and talented women.  It was a major realization for me that I have achieved my own successes in a fashion stylistically most similar to successful women, not via the classical alpha male roles.  In the academic environment, this works very well but I suspect being the alpha female (incidentally very different from the male alpha behaviors) is a very successful model for success and has been for quite a while in this environment.


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