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Who else is struggling from major anxiety or panic attacks

Started by Amoré, March 17, 2017, 10:52:22 AM

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Amoré

Hi guys, Well with this job thing and all I had been struggling like usual with anxiety. I have been struggling with anxiety attacks my whole life but the moment I went on hrt a year and 7 months back and all this psychiatric medication I have had major anxiety attacks.

I start to feel how my chest compresses and how I start to struggle to breath. I then start hyperventilating sometimes I shake and then from all of it normally end up passing out. I spoke to my psych about this and they put me on medication for it but no medication seems to really stop it and sometimes I can have this attacks for no reason. After the attack is done I feel fatigued and have a migraine normally.I am sitting with this now as I am writing this post.

Have any of you had the same problem and what did you do to help you cope with these attacks.


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SailorMars1994

The only time i have panic attacks or anxiety is when I still see something male about me in turth. I go from having a ''its fine'' moment to an total axiety attack. I have been dealing with anxiety disorders my whole life. I am skeptical to blame in on hrt as Estrgren has made me feel much better and I had bad anxiety back on testosterone. I guess what makes the panic attack worse is how far I am progressing and if I still see him it add a layer of doubt that kills. That and I have been off my anti-aniety meds latley as I couldnt afford them. But back on now :)!!

What I try to do i numb my mind, watch a stupid show, talk to friends.. just try to divert attention. Also, deep breathing can help apperently
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Amoré

Quote from: SailorMars1994 on March 17, 2017, 11:00:15 AM
The only time i have panic attacks or anxiety is when I still see something male about me in turth. I go from having a ''its fine'' moment to an total axiety attack. I have been dealing with anxiety disorders my whole life. I am skeptical to blame in on hrt as Estrgren has made me feel much better and I had bad anxiety back on testosterone. I guess what makes the panic attack worse is how far I am progressing and if I still see him it add a layer of doubt that kills. That and I have been off my anti-aniety meds latley as I couldnt afford them. But back on now :)!!

What I try to do i numb my mind, watch a stupid show, talk to friends.. just try to divert attention. Also, deep breathing can help apperently

I try deep breathing but end up concentrating even more on breating and the situation and end up making it worse.  :embarrassed:


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SailorMars1994

Quote from: Amoré on March 17, 2017, 11:05:17 AM
I try deep breathing but end up concentrating even more on breating and the situation and end up making it worse.  :embarrassed:

Yea, i get that too sometimes. Well, I used to rip my hair out and bite myself.. but there are better ways i leanred. Use an elestic band, it will divert attention. Drinking water too i find unusurally helping too for whatever reason. Sorry I am not much help in this area.
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Gender became on radar: 2007
Admitted to self : 2010
Came out: May 12 2014
Estrogen: October 16 2015
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Amoré

Quote from: SailorMars1994 on March 17, 2017, 11:07:31 AM
Yea, i get that too sometimes. Well, I used to rip my hair out and bite myself.. but there are better ways i leanred. Use an elestic band, it will divert attention. Drinking water too i find unusurally helping too for whatever reason. Sorry I am not much help in this area.

Just great to know I am not alone,my boyfriend normally assists me but he can do nothing to stop it from happening it just comes like a wave and then you are screwed it takes me normally a couple of hours to a day to recover depending on the severity of the attack. Like I had a really bad one today and I am feeling the after effects


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Saira128

     I used to cut when I was anxious. Now I know, the scars are not worth the effort.
    I still have those bouts of anxiety, but I just start deep breathing.
      I chant the sanskrit word Om, its pronounced as AUM. Checkout some youtube videos about it and meditation. It really helps.
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Michelle_P

I still get them occasionally.

I generally can process them with meditation and breathing exercises if I catch them early enough.  I find the key is to recognize the onset, and rather than fight it, just get to a quiet place if at all possible, start slow breathing and try to enter a state of mindful meditation, letting the anxieties and emotional swings flow past, not engaging or fighting it, but just letting it wash over and away, letting it fade with each breath.

Unfortunately, sometimes I wait too long, or still accidentally engage, and that leads to Bad Stuff.  It's really hard to get past this once I engage it in that virtual combat, which seems to make it stronger.  Triggers for this appear to be from getting kicked down from multiple sources at almost the same time.  When that happens, I find that I'm getting knocked down before I have recovered from the last virtual blow, and recovery on my own becomes very difficult.  I've had to rely on friends to help me recover in those cases.  Just choose your friends carefully, as you need folks who will really support you in bad times, not turn around and kick you themselves!  Your support network should actually be supportive.

Saira and SailorMars are definitely on the right track.  It ain't easy, but it is doable.
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GarrettGreen

I have anxiety around family because they are major christians and talk dirty about the transgender community all the time.


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Daniellekai

I'm pretty mellow in general, but I don't do well socially, I come off as very quiet sometimes disturbingly so. I just don't know what to say or do, probably because growing up following my instincts lead to being picked on, because they're the instincts of a female, lol... So now I have a terrible social disorder to fix in addition to being trans, but such is life...


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CarlyMcx

I've been having them for eleven years, but mine take the form of TMJ pains, GERD, really nasty referred pains from my esophagus, and irregular heartbeats.

They mostly went away when I started hormone therapy but I still get them when I have to present as male for work related stuff.  But they have been slowly diminishing in frequency and intensity as I look more feminine and find more opportunities to go out presenting as female.
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V M

Yep, it's something I've dealt with all my life

I've been in therapy for quite awhile now and that does seem to help me cope a bit better but I still get blindsided by my

"Scary Monsters" now and then

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