Hi Marissa
I'm Jeanette. 64, MtF. And I would like to welcome you to Susan's place. Unofficially of course. V M already welcomed you in her official capacity. I can do that because I am nobody here except a self appointed greeter. LOL So come on in and sit yourself down. There, over there --->, That's Devlyn's chair. She's not here right now and wouldn't mind you using it anyway. Drink? Sorry we don't have whiskey... or any liquor for that matter. Coffee, tea, water or soda. Have you browsed the posts yet? Lots of good stuff in them and lots of good people here willing to help. (They're always helping me with my problems and I have several. I fear I'm turning into a drama queen)
It sounds like your SO has a good woman at her side. It isn't easy for you or her I am sure. Any way take a look around, read a bit, comment if you wish. Ask your questions and share yourself with us so we can get to know you as you get to know us. We are glad you are here and hope your other half will join us also.
Hugs,
Jeanette