Ashley,
Love your picture too. Very cute!
The inner voice thing is something you hear well enough to know what gender it is? I can't imagine that. Of course that comes from a person who dreams in black and white too. I think I only have one voice. It is a very different person doing the talking from say two years ago, pre-transition. My voice was calm for a while after transitioning. Now it won't shut up with thoughts of one surgery that did not go well and trying to get to another surgery. Maybe this is what Jeanette means by squirrels. Right now I just wish my voice would shut up and give me some peace, let me sleep. I don't think it likely though.
Moni