Hi, Noel! Welcome to the site.
It's great to read that you are communicating with your spouse over these issues. Just being able to share your feelings with someone else can be a great relief, and I think it is key to combining a marriage with the transgender experience.
We have some other members in similar situations, some for many decades, and they might be able to share more with you.
I hope you feel welcome here.
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