IMO there is alot of pushing and shoving going on here about the merits of having FFS or not. I think it is purely a personal choice, not for anyone else to say 'you'll never pass, you're delusional.'
In the general population of GGs, there are ultra feminine women (facially I mean) and others with strong masculine features, and they can both be considered attractive, sexy, desirable etc.
In the film industry there are huge diversities, for eg: Eva Longeria and Elizabeth Taylor. They couldn't look masculine if they tried! While others have slightly masculine or boyish features like Keira Knightly, Rebecca Romijn. The androgyny look seems to be 'in' atm.
For me I choose FFS, because it is imperative for me to have any semblance of a normal life. If your life is going along pleasantly and YOU are happy with how you look, don't mess with it! I am sick of being scrutinised everywhere I go, that is not a normal existence so off to the surgeon, it is!
I have seen many TGs who do not pass, but for some reason they do not get any flak or the whole staring treatment! So why I do, go figure. Alot of effeminate gay guys seem to like me which I find surprising and wonder what is it they see. I always get called ma'me, but with an added smile which I don't like! I crave 'normal', and I want that so much it hurts. If I achieve it is another matter. I am not a positive person, never have been, I've been up and down like a yo-yo in this crazy life of mine and God keeps the rollercoaster ride going for me, I want the merry-go-round now, no more surprises, no more tears, no more 'what the hell am I doing?' moments! Sometimes you just want to chuck it all in! Some of us were given lemons, and many make lemonade, while mine seems to have turned into cyanide!