ok, so... i recently, very recently found out i might identify as adrogyne as my gender but wondering if i'm intersex has been on mind for a whole year now. i can't really go to a professional because i don't have the resources to (i'm poor, no transportation, etc.) and i'm too afraid, anyways.
but i'm dfab and i got my period when i was 11 years old but it was never a lot; i usually get two days of flow and then just spotting for the next two days and sometimes i can go many months without getting my period. i also have a lot of body hair-- this is what prompted me to question if i'm intersex. i have very low self esteem because of it and i found identifying as intersex helped me with that. i have had thick body hair for as long as i can remember, i remember one time in 2nd grade a boy came up to me and said we had the same amount of hair and called me a 'gorilla'. i guess what i mean to say is that it is really heavy and thick and not your usual peach fuzz, and its all over my body and face. i also have broader shoulders and barely any chest but my voice isn't deep and my clitoris isn't that enlarged. from what i read, it could be hyperandrogenism since along with excessive body hair and menstrual irregularities, i also have seborrhea, i'm prone to acne and i have a high libido. i don't know if it's important to mention but: at 13, when i started working out more often, i developed abs and muscular arms very quickly. and my family has a long history of excessive hair in females, and one of my aunts has thyroid, excessive weight gain and infertility issues.
hopefully, when i'm able to i can get a hormonal check-up but for now, i need some kind of opinion to see if its valid if i identify as intersex (not as my gender, obviously, but more like another identity of me.)