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Sometimes we just need to take a break...

Started by Michelle_P, May 04, 2017, 12:11:37 AM

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Michelle_P

We can find ourselves pounding through a routine in our lives, the same stuff day after day.  I'm pretty sure that isn't particularly healthy, but we can fall into doing this, what works to get us through our day, pretty easily.  I know I did...

Last month I had a day where I hadn't scheduled anything.  I had no meetings, no pressing tasks.  I could have just stayed at home, and just done my daily routine things and perhaps caught up on cleaning and paperwork, but instead I did something I hadn't done since I was young, and went to see a beautiful floral exhibit, Japanese garden, walked around a lake, and went out to dinner by myself.  I found this invigorating, to the point that I resolved to do something like this every month.

Today was the day.

I took out regional rapid transit into San Francisco early this morning, and then rode a cable car (Tourist!) over to the Fisherman's Wharf area.  I had a specific destination in mind for breakfast.

I had breakfast at the Buena Vista Cafe, where Irish Coffee was invented (it says here...)!  The Buena Vista is pretty much all community dining. I started my brunch at a table with a woman traveling on business who needed her breakfast and her Irish coffee on two separate bills. Ah, expense accounts.

They were replaced by a visiting couple on their way out to the airport. We chatted menu items and weather, and I complemented their timing in arriving last Thursday, when our weather turned warm, for their vacation here.

The couple at the next table, two gents from Ft Worth, thought the talk of hot weather here was funny. I had to explain normal SF weather, and how 75 F is extraordinary [emoji6]. They were surprised at my steak and eggs order and were curious how often I did that. Oh, maybe every 30 years or so...

Lots of nice conversations, relaxed wait staff, no fuss. My kind of breakfast out!

Time for a walk...

After walking through Aquatic Park, Fort Mason, and the Marina District, I'm finally visiting the Disney Family Museum. A goofy choice, but gawrsh!  It's really pretty neat. The museum is largely focused on Walt Disney's life, mostly before Disneyland and television.  There is a huge final display  area on the parks and TV, but much is on his early life and how his career as an animator and producer went.  It's a good 3 hour minimum visit, definitely worthwhile if you are interested in animation or the movie industry.

Next, a little bus ride south and another walk...

Time for a coffee break.  This was Michelle's first visit to The Castro. Friendly neighborhood, lots of smiling faces. All tourists, of course.  Philz Coffee for a little break, followed by Dog Eared Books.  Two shelves of trans biographies and various treatment and care books. Yow!

Head to the downtown for assorted shopping then the Embarcadero for dinner...

Dinner at Fog City. Tried the Cline Indian Hills Reserve Zinfandel. Nope. Bland and oaky. Ordered chicken apple salad as entree. This is pretty darn good.

Oh, dear. Beignets on the dessert menu. With espresso. The diet is doomed. Both a chocolate espresso and a vanilla bean dipping sauce.

I suppose anything worth doing is worth overdoing. 25,582 steps today, probably too many calories, sore feet, and I'm tired.

But... Goddess, I can't stop grinning.

Do you ever schedule a day of goofing off, new experiences to try and rejuvenate or break out of a rut?
Earth my body, water my blood, air my breath and fire my spirit.

My personal transition path included medical changes.  The path others take may require no medical intervention, or different care.  We each find our own path. I provide these dates for the curious.
Electrolysis - Hours in The Chair: 238 (8.5 were preparing for GCS, five clearings); On estradiol patch June 2016; Full-time Oct 22, 2016; GCS Oct 20, 2017; FFS Aug 28, 2018; Stage 2 labiaplasty revision and BA Feb 26, 2019
Michelle's personal blog and biography
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Laurie

  Nice day off Michelle.
    I have been in San Francisco acting like a tourist maybe a million years ago now. Did the Embarcadero area, Fisherman's wharf, Giradelli Square, rode the street car and turned it around to head back and Lombard street and The Golden Gate Bridge.  It's been so long I hardly remember anything about it now. Just places and names. Since those days I've concentrated on just getting through the horrible city (all cities are horrible places)
   My getaway places tend to be where trees grow, scenic vistas, mountains, or deserts, and rivers and streams. They tend to be far away from crowds. A few people are okay but I prefer solitude. Have I mentioned I could be happy as a hermit, a recluse? I love getting in my vehicle and driving, turning on a whim to find out where the road might take me.
Just , my pickup, me and the road.
   I have come in and announced I'm going for a ride and I'll be back when I get back. I've come in after a trip to the store for groceries and told my sister I was going to Missouri. She asked me when and I answered " After supper" And so I did. I threw a few things together  tossed it into my pickup and off I went down the road. Two days and 2800+ miles later, (shortcuts remember? It's about 2k miles for other travelers) I walked into my friend's house. They were already in bed and Jim was awake, saw me in his bedroom doorway and giggled a little which woke up the dog who's barking woke up Peggy. Once she saw me she got out of bed to hug me and went back to bed. I got my blanket and pillow from the pickup and settle in on the couch to sleep.
I was home.

    I am not good at planning and scheduling. Never have been. I only do it when I have to.
  Those are my getaways and I'll do them as long as I am able. Spur of the moment, get up and go. Even when I have a destination in mind I tend to take my "shortcuts" I'm famous among my friends for them. They seldom save me time or distance but they sure can be scenic.

   Hugs,
   Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Michelle_P

Laurie, that sounds like a perfectly fine change of pace.  I think everyone will find they have something that they would like to do to break out of their routine.  I'm curious as to what others have done or wish they could do (and why they don't) to shake up their daily routine.

My old persona was introverted and antisocial, and he would have been just fine hiding away in a rural setting, preferably near the ocean.  Michelle, me, is a different story.  I  seem to be a slightly shy but blooming extrovert urbanite, now that I've stripped away his protective armor and am living my life.  Thus the new nature of my getaway days...
Earth my body, water my blood, air my breath and fire my spirit.

My personal transition path included medical changes.  The path others take may require no medical intervention, or different care.  We each find our own path. I provide these dates for the curious.
Electrolysis - Hours in The Chair: 238 (8.5 were preparing for GCS, five clearings); On estradiol patch June 2016; Full-time Oct 22, 2016; GCS Oct 20, 2017; FFS Aug 28, 2018; Stage 2 labiaplasty revision and BA Feb 26, 2019
Michelle's personal blog and biography
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Laurie

Michelle,

  I believe you are right everyone needs these getaways. What and how are interesting to read but what's important is that they work for the one doing it.
   Mine is and enjoying being away from people while enjoying the road and sights.
   Yours is mingling in crowds becoming a socialite.
   I can do crowds to be with friends but my heart is somewhere moseying down the road in the country.  To each their own. Enjoy life whatever your personal choice is.

  Hugs,
   Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Geeker

Unfortunately, anymore I'm one of those people that if I'm taking a day (or more) off, then I have specific reasons for it. For instance, I'm on vacation this week, not because I wanted a vacation but because I have to dog sit and clean out my basement to prepare it for getting the foundation repaired. I wish I could take a day, slack off like a teen on summer break and do absolutely nothing.

I used to go on bicycle tours. Think road trip but everything is packed on a bicycle instead of a cars trunk. Now that's fun. When you go places even just a couple towns over by bike people give you this strange look, like they can't believe you rode x-amount of distance just for the heck of it. Good times...

Michelle, your picture of beignets woke up my sweet tooth! Maybe tomorrow morning I'll treat myself to some doughnuts from this little bakery right down the street. Best doughnuts in Des Moines, at least in my opinion.
I'm not out, I'm not on E, unless things change I doubt I ever will be.
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Barb99

Quote from: Michelle_P on May 04, 2017, 12:11:37 AM
We can find ourselves pounding through a routine in our lives, the same stuff day after day.  I'm pretty sure that isn't particularly healthy, but we can fall into doing this, what works to get us through our day, pretty easily.  I know I did...

I found myself in that same old rut. Same friends, same places, same food... Don't get me wrong, I love my friends, they have stuck with me through my whole transition and many other things in life. Never the less it still that same old daily routine.

So I just recently made a new goal of getting out at least once a week on my own to go and do something new. I'm only getting started, but so far it's been a local home and garden show and a couple of new restaurants. I've had fun and meet new people each time. I'm always looking for ideas of what to try next. Any ideas?
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p

What a lovely getaway, Michelle! These days I have been feeling over-scheduled between normal family obligations and a raft of transition-related appointments and errands. This really makes me think it's getting to be time to scoop up the hubby and get a little change of pace! Thanks so much for sharing.
Patti

Something is off - 2016-17
Out to husband - 2/14/17
Full-time - 3/9/17
HRT - 6/14/17
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