Which packer will be most satisfying?

[miss_jessica]

I would like to know if anyone can tell me if there is a strapon dildo or a packer that "feels" like the real thing during penetration?  My wife is nervous of dildos because they are too firm and she is quite sensitive.  So, I want to get something for her that feels as close to the real thing as possible.  Hopefully without breaking the bank.

[kings joker]

Anything from the Vixen Vixskin line is about as close as your going to get in terms of squish, firmness, bendyness and heat transfer. When my bisexual gf and I tried it for the first time the first words out of her mouth were "oh my god it feel so real". This is backed up by dozens of reviews and bloggers claiming the same thing.

Vixen products are also top of the line silicone and are 100% sterilizable and are extremely resistent to tearing, breaking or shedding. Even better they don't smell and wont pick up any weird odors or discoloring.

I have two of their products and for the last 2 years have used them almost exclusively because they're just so good, its hard to find anything else that can beat vixen. The only issue is....they're pricy for a no frills dildoe. However, I have never once regretted the purchases.

[miss_jessica]

Thanks for your response.

Do you think that would be better than something like a ReelMagik (or EC prosthetics -- they are about the same price as VixSkin) pack and play?  They look unbelievably real and the foreskin actually slides and stretches.  I know it is like 4 times the cost.  And, while I want to spend the least amount possible, she was really dissatisfied with the silicon dildo we have, saying she was "cold" for a couple of hours after the fact.

[kings joker]

Well, the difference between a vixskin or a reelmagic would be the difference between LOOKING real and FEELING real. A prosthetic like Real Magic or EC do look really realistic but without a duel core design they will not FEEL real. There are several duel core design dildoes on the market but vixskin is arguable the better brand because of they're extensive line options. Reelmagic has a good line and has an optional "Core Fill" capability but I have not heard any reviews about how real it feels. My guess is that it's probably very good because its so high quality but since it itn't all real magic does it might not be as good as say vixskin who specializes in their duel density.

The other issue with a prosthetic would be since the adhesive is for long term use, idk how the adhesive would work for just an hour or so. Plus its kinda expensive.

I have nothing against prosthetics and am not trying to sway you because they're bad. I just don't want you to shell out $500 for something you can find in a $100 product. I think high end prosthetics are great for dysphoria, sexual purposes and restroom use but if you are using this purely for sexual relations I think there are much cheaper options for you.

[kings joker]

For a pack and play, I would also suggest the NY toy collective Shilo and Carter. I think they're great for a duel purpose (packing and playing) but like most multi-purpose toy's they're not the best as a packer or as a play toy. You'll always sacrifice a little bit when you want to add more purposes to it.

[miss_jessica]

Thank you so much for taking the time!  Your advice is invaluable.

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