Packers/sizes and questions

[Tristan]

What is a good size packer to use when first starting out with packing? (I'm worried about getting one and it looking like i have a bulge or something embarrassing because i wouldn't know what i'm doing.) (never had a packer before)
Also what is a good brand of packer to get that looks realistic enough but is still cheap?

[FTMax]

Mr. Limpy (aka The Classic Packy), the Sailor, or the Masho are all good first packer options, assuming you don't want to STP. The good part about all of those is that if you do decide you want to STP, they can easily be modified at home to be able to do so. Aesthetically, they all look about the same and will create a realistic bulge. They're all very inexpensive, which is good for your first one. Don't break the bank on something if you aren't sure it'll be worth the investment.

As far as size, I think it really depends on your size and build, and what you want from it. In general, I think smaller is better for your first one just so that you get used to the weight and the bulge isn't too big. I'm 5'5" and the one I would usually wear is 3.5". If you're taller, 5" may be more appropriate. Most cis guys aren't very big when they're soft, so that's also something to consider if realism is important.

Another thought for anyone reading this that may be considering phalloplasty in the future - I hear a lot of guys who want 6"+ phalloplasties. If phallo is something you're considering, I highly recommend getting a packer in the size that you're planning to ask for so that you can wear it regularly and determine whether or not that is actually something you want to be carting around full time.

[yewboy]

I use the XS Mr Limpy (3.5"). Cheap and effective.

It does need abit of care though - the material get sticky pretty fast so you need to powder it. Fleshlight sells an official powder but cornstarch or similar works well. I orginally bought the S size (5") but found it was too big for daily wear. I use it to pack at night now for that morning wood effect.

[Tristan]

I use the XS Mr Limpy (3.5"). Cheap and effective.

It does need abit of care though - the material get sticky pretty fast so you need to powder it. Fleshlight sells an official powder but cornstarch or similar works well. I orginally bought the S size (5") but found it was too big for daily wear. I use it to pack at night now for that morning wood effect.

For someone who is as tall as 5'2 would a size Small work?
i want it realistic but i don't want it to small either :/

[yewboy]

  For someone who is as tall as 5'2 would a size Small work?
i want it realistic but i don't want it to small either :/

Well I'm 5'3. I guess if you make a 5" sock packer and see how that goes? Try packing to the side rather than straight up. Cis guys go to the side too as it's more comfortable. That's why tailors will ask if you 'dress to the left or to the right' when getting custom suit pants.

[dutch_boy]

 

For someone who is as tall as 5'2 would a size Small work?
i want it realistic but i don't want it to small either :/

I'm 6'2" and I've always used the XS. Tall guys don't necessarily have a big dick. After all, the average is about 3.5-4 inch, so there's loads of people with a smaller one.

[FTMax]

I use the XS Mr Limpy (3.5"). Cheap and effective.

It does need abit of care though - the material get sticky pretty fast so you need to powder it. Fleshlight sells an official powder but cornstarch or similar works well. I orginally bought the S size (5") but found it was too big for daily wear. I use it to pack at night now for that morning wood effect.

For someone who is as tall as 5'2 would a size Small work?
i want it realistic but i don't want it to small either :/

I think the XS would be more appropriate. Somewhere between 3-4".

[Dena]

Just for comparison proposes, I am 6'2" tall and deflated I was about 2.5 inches. Inflated I was between 5 and 6 inches. It's difficult to properly conceal something that size when you don't want every body guessing what's on your mind. Fortunately in those days, pants were pretty lose fitting so it wasn't all that noticeable.

[jamiejams44]

masho is also a good option because it has 3D balls and it hangs down where as Mr Limpy XS is slightly erect

[CursedFireDean]

Ive had the MASHO, XS, and S Limpy (among many others) and I would recommend either the MASHO or the XS limpy for a first time packer. The MASHO I had a long time ago and don't remember well because I ended up moving on to other packers, but it was very forgiving for learning how to position a packer. The XS Limpy I got almost a year ago and it was my daily packer for a good long while despite preferring larger packers before. It has since been replaced as my daily packer by the thing I'll talk about next:

If you like packing and decide to 'upgrade' (whether just to a higher quality or literally to a larger size) I would recommend Reelmagik basic packers in SOFT. I have the original firmness as well and while I liked it, it was a bit firm, but the soft version is the most realistic thing I've ever touched in my life. I can't even explain how happy my soft 5" from them makes me, and its my 9th packer, so I can compare to quite a few. I  nearly cried when I held it up to my body and looked in the mirror. It literally feels like my own dick. I got the largest (which is also uncut which is why I got it) and it set me back about $70 which is why I don't recommend it for a FIRST TIME packer, but it's 100% worth it if you know you like to pack. The smaller ones they offer are less expensive as well, so they may be more reasonable for a first time packer.

I also prefer my packers to be above average sized and let me tell you, for some reason, the S Limpy is one of the harder ones for me to pack. The only thing harder to pack is my pack n' play freetom, and that's only because that one is a pack and PLAY. I have a harness that works well if I pack the S Limpy upwards, but I don't really use it outside of that harness, which unfortunately gets VERY smelly VERY quickly. Like after a day of wear the first time, I almost threw up when I took it off and the smell hit me. I don't know how the fabric reacts so badly to my natural smell down there. If you really don't want something as small as the MASHO or XS limpy, then I would also recommend the sailor, but be warned that it isn't very durable, and its a little more expensive. I liked it decently but I have better packers, which is why I don't use it much.

[Alexthecat]

I've only had the XS Limpy and the Masho. I recommend the Masho over the limpy. I did not realize how uncomfortable the limpy was making me until I had something else to compare it to. The Masho does not produce an awkward boner like the limpy can and the masho sits just right in my sew in pouch and now my joey pouch.

[kings joker]

I have had both the Sailor 2 and the EZpee (still working on the stp part) as everyday packers. I LOVE LOVE LOVE the Sailor 2! It's soft when starched and is squishy and malleable for easy packing and comfort but also had a duel core center to give it hardness when squeezed. I think it's one of the heavier packers so it really feels like you're packing heat but again is Mr. limpy squishy 1/3rd of the thickness through. Once you squeeze through the squish you can feel the harder core in the shaft and balls that really makes me feel like I've got something down there.
I swear when I first got it, I would grab my junk all day long just because it felt so amazing to pack with. I got the 5" because I have major dick envy and wanted a nice big... It took me a day or so to perfect packing in different pants. Up and to the left about 45 degrees is perfect for me. The tip kinda sits in the pocket area of my pants.

UNFORTUNATLY, my sailor only lasted about 4 months of heavy use before it began to tear and peel apart, hence why i've been packing wit my Ezpee... It gives me a bulge (not really why I pack) and kinda fills the emptiness between my legs but it's not as heavy or as long as my beloved Sailor 2....

[Silver Centurion]

Is there a packer that is good for heavier guys? I have a packer that is 5" but honestly it can't be seen at all. Is it kind of a lost cause because of chub?