featurs about your body that bother you the most

[samanthawhalen]

I only read through the first page of this thread, but I wonder why so few people don't think their face is the main problem. After all, the face is the first thing that people focus on.  If my face were more feminine looking, I'd be well on my way.  I already have a decent butt, and my hips are sort of feminine looking for a guy.  I just don't have $50,000 to change all the things I want (or need?) to change:  big-time scalp reduction, brow shave, shortening and feminizing of nose, chin augmentation, oral surgery to align jaws and fix bite, braces and veneers for teeth worn flat from grinding them at night, fix slightly lazy left eye lid, hair transplantation.  Shall I go on? 

Posted on: March 18, 2008, 09:09:18 AM

My mouth, I use to hate my lips, I got my top lip enhanced, I want fuller lips but don't want to look like a fish LOL

I am sure here have also seen pics of that one ->-bleeped-<- star.  Her lips are disgusting.  They do make her look like a fish.  Something else that she possesses is freakishly large.  Not lady-like, by any stretch of the imagination.

[Jay]

I'm also curious about female to male transgendered people on this question. Many M to F's are anxious to get rid of their penis but I'm not seeing F to M's obsessing over having a penis. Maybe they are but not as expressive about it?

Well I would love to have a penis.. and am probably going for that surgery myself!
I am desperate to get rid of my breasts because they are impossible to bind and I cant wait to be able to walk around with my shirt off on a summers day!
I would like to be thinner and have a better bone structure..

[Audrey]

I wouldn't mind some more defined hips.  I did go through a stage where I thought I needed FFS, but the hormones have been good to me so I think I'll pass on that.  Also something else regarding FFS and that is one word.  MICHAEL JACKSON.  If its not broken don't fix it.

Audrey

[lady amarant]

I wouldn't mind some more defined hips.  I did go through a stage where I thought I needed FFS, but the hormones have been good to me so I think I'll pass on that.  Also something else regarding FFS and that is one word.  MICHAEL JACKSON.  If its not broken don't fix it.

Audrey

omg yes. Shame, poor guy. Sooooooo very screwed up.

As for me ...

I could stand to lose a few k's...
And being shorter would be better...
And my nose is like a trunk - EVERYBODY can tell I'm from Africa ...
And I REALLY, REALLY need a style consultant to enter my sad little life ...

[tekla]

Finding someone to shop with was a very positive thing in my life.  Just make sure you trust them enough so that when they say no, you put it down and move away from the rack.

[Maddie Secutura]

I would say my jaw is a problem.  My chin isn't that long, but I have a very wide jaw.  Oh, shoulders and waist would be two more problem spots but I'll see what the hormones do to them.

[foreversarah]

For me there's the obvious problem down there and my body's too muscular, apart from that I think I wou;d trsnsitiopn fairly well.

[Nero]

just my tits and the love/hate relationship I have with them. I like everything else about my body.

[Virginia87106]

Emmalenne-

I feel very much the same as you, I have never hated my penis therefore, I still have it and enjoy its performance occasionally.  Having breasts and a penis has always seemed so natural for me.  Right now, I do not like the way my face is sliding because of aging, so I am considering a facelift soon.

[Lokaeign]

I'm desperately unhappy with most of the package!  For one thing I don't like being overweight--I'm clinically obese--not because of anxiety about being "fat" (I know lots of big-bodied people I find fabulously beautiful) but because it's all in very "female" places.  For instance it is impossible for me to bind--I'm just too big on top.  Sometimes I look in the mirror or catch sight of myself in a shop window and I just want to curl up in a little ball and howl.  The only things about myself I really like are my broad shoulders and my eyes.  Oddly I'm less anxious about "downstairs," it's the visible things which bother me most.

[Nero]

Sometimes I look in the mirror or catch sight of myself in a shop window and I just want to curl up in a little ball and howl. 

Oh god, I know that feeling. I had to stop binding because of my health. My doc freaked when he saw the binder. Too many health problems, can't have any breathing restriction. So now I have to deal with that 'breast profile' when I catch my side in mirrors. Makes me puke.

[Moira Midnigh]

My hair is my biggest grief at the moment...I have male balding patterns, started three years ago. I think it might be stress-related, too, but meh. Luckily, I am getting some pills to stall it (and it's even growing a little thicker!) so I hope the HRT will have something to work with if I ever get there.

Other than that...uhm...my nose ^^

And my very visible veins...get tan, girl!

And the hair everywhere but on my head. My beard can almost grow out in a day. I haven't shaved for two days now, and it's quite visible, and I just hate shaving! Ugh!

But other than that...I have a good butt (please, don't make it saggy!), long legs, slim figure, not-too-big hands...when I look in the mirror, it's always the hair that break the image.


~Moi.

[soldierjane]

I'd mostly like to have SRS and BAS, other than that maybe I'm too tall at 5'11 but I have nice legs as a result. The genital area is the primary cause of  dysphoria these days though.

[Moira Midnigh]

my hair (or lack thereof, although its coming back, albeit slowly) is my biggest worry.....and yet when i went to get a haircut last week, i passed in spite of it...the stylist read me as a woman with some hair problems...."how bout we try a shag, hon, that will look cute!"

i was like, omg because i was certain that i would never pass without hair replacement and/or wig.....i was quite surprised and it definitely boosted my condifence

Aw, that's so nice! That made my night, really, thank you '

I know confidence has a lot to say, in everything. If you're not confident, your worries will get the better of you, and you will be subject to other people's thoughts. And your own.

It is, of course, my hope, to have shoulder-long hair that I can do whatever I want with. But if I can't have that, why not make the best of what I -can- have?

But thanks, dear.

~Moi.

[Elincubus]

For one thing my boobs. They are actually quite small, but very pointy and this compared with the rediculously broad rib cage I got from my father (even if ihis is much worse) makes it almost impossible to hide them...
Also my soft facial features and my small hands.

What I really love are the muscles that have begun growing on my arms since I started to work out a couple of months ago because even I haven't time for more than some push-ups now and then the result is great.
(And it was great as my dad noticed them for the first time. He was so taken aback and didn't knew what to say (he is a complete sport freak and always wanted that I did something for my fitness))

And I can't stand my hair. It's natural color is ugly and I'm uncapable to make it look good. When I tried to act my birth gender and really tried hard I failed, but now when I just want to look it male, I still fail. My brother has perfect hair and he just takes a shower and instead of brushing it puts on his cap and it looks perfect...Life is unfair. LOL

[D2008]

I could probably point out everything on my body and moan about it in some way but the real issues are I have breasts and I don't have a penis

[Lokaeign]

Also my soft facial features and my small hands.

Yeah, I have tiny hands too, really soft and girly.  I don't exactly hate them though; even though they're small, I know they're strong and capable enough. 

The soft facial features thing I can completely relate to.  I have a big chin but a girlish mouth and I've never had so much as a wisp of facial hair to play with.  I look like the Pillsbury doughboy.  I've been wondering about excercises to maybe tighten and firm my face so that the planes are cleaner.  Hopefully when I lose my weight it'll be less of an issue.

ETA:  Oh yeah, and my voice!  I have this stupid squeaky voice which drives me nuts.

[Yvonne]

It used to be my boobs but that's been fixed recently.

[Princess]

i sort of have a little trail of hair by my belly button, and it's disgusting

[deviousxen]

Lucky... Mine isn't a trail, its a highway.

I've waxed it a couple of times, but it just kills. I'm really starting to fear that the only thing thats gonna work is permanent removal eventually.