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Number of Personalities You have

Started by Wendy, December 28, 2007, 12:26:11 AM

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How many personalities do you have?

3 (It's getting crowded)
1 (Just me)
2 (Both of us argue)
3 (It's getting crowded)
4 or more (Get in line)

Wendy

Happy Holidays!

This poll does not require a "clinical" evaluation of "multiple personalities" but it is required that you have difficulty shifting a personality once it is entered.  The question is not asking if you act different for the various roles we all have such as mother/father, wife/husband, daughter/son, aunt/uncle, boss/subordinate, etc.

You have the option of changing your vote.  This topic is difficult for me and I might be confusing the "inability to express one's self" with "multiple personalities".
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Oh I feel ready to embarrass myself with this tread.

I have always recognized that I had a personality that I had to hide from society once I reached school age.  As I mentioned in an earlier post I locked myself in the bathroom at two years old and my favorite uncle who happened to be a NYC police person came and rescued me.  I have remained secretive and am part of a family that keeps secrets.

My dad allowed me zero flexibility to express myself.  It was his way or his hand.  I absolutely adored my dad but I feared his wrath.  He was merciless verbally with my sister, my mom and with me.  I was my dad's minion and I would do anything to please him which unfortunately was very little since he wanted a masculine son.

I had an Italian friend that protected me in fourth grade that was named Eddie.  You have heard me talk about referring to myself as Eddie and Wendy several times over the past two years on this forum.  Therefore it should come as no surprise if I told you I had two personalities; however, it does not stop at this point.

About three months ago (after I attended the Southern Comfort Conference in secret) my wife finally started to understand my gender issues after my second conversation with her and we started to have dialog of my many secrets.  I then asked her how many personalities I had.  She said two. She recognized Eddie but gave the second person as an alpha male.  She was totally unaware of Wendy.

I did some soul searching and "Alpha" started at around age 23 when I was with a girl and in the  corporate world.  The person I call "Eddie" was not male enough for our culture.

The person I call Wendy started as a sweet, affectionate little boy that just liked girl things and was very abused.  I tend to move from Eddie to Wendy or Eddie to Alpha.  If I feel threatened I move to Alpha.

I have difficulty moving out of a personality when I enter it.  I have showed my wife Wendy and Wendy has a different personality than Eddie.

If my wife left me then Wendy won.  I (Eddie) happen to like Wendy.  My wife also likes Wendy but only as a friend.  My wife, Wendy and I (Eddie) dislike Alpha.

I will not erase this post at least for a day.  I told you I would embarrass myself again.

Does anyone have more than one personality?   I vote three personalities but remember this is not a clinical evaluation but rather how it  appears to my wife and I.




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Pica Pica

just me, and sometimes it gets lonely and sometimes it means I have great difficulty adapting into (especially formal) situations. But still just me.
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Berliegh

Number of Personalities You have?

.....just the one! .......and the U.K psychiatrist said I don't suffer from any mental health issue's either..

...isn't multiple personalities due to someone suffering from schizophrenia?
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IsabelleStPierre

I voted for just one...yep...only one...me...myself...and I...dang...no wait...that's three isn't it?? What? What's that you say?? Oh...OK...OK...I'll tell them...everyone stop talking at once!! Ug! Hard to get a word in edge wise...too many voices...

All kidding aside...no it's just me. Now I do take on different roles...Izzy as my male self...Izzy as protector...Izzy as....it's just me...the amazing one woman show...

Peace and love,
Izzy
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Lisbeth

I live in my own little world.  But that's okay.  They know me here.

In the realm of identity negotiation, we have multiple identities: wife, mother, employee, student, whatever.  And each identity has specific rolls and behaviors that go with it.  But there is nothing in this that implies multiple personalities.  A single personality is made up of multiple interacting identities.  Multiple Personality Disorder is different in that each personality is completely dissociated from the others.
"Anyone who attempts to play the 'real transsexual' card should be summarily dismissed, as they are merely engaging in name calling rather than serious debate."
--Julia Serano

http://juliaserano.blogspot.com/2011/09/transsexual-versus-transgender.html
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Sheila

I am who I am, take it or leave it. I'm happy with me, just the way I am.
Sheila
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Kara66

I have one. A male who has great taste in clothing knows how to put on makeup and knows what outfit is appropriate for the right occasion.  I.E jeans and leather jacket when riding my Harley or a nice little black dress for a night of partying and dancing.
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SusanK

I have one personality, but many facets and aspect to it which makes me, like everyone, complex and unique.
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lisagurl

Reflection must be some kind of Deja vu.
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Natasha

Ha ha ha ha .... hopefully it's just me although sometimes my altered ego comes alive and takes over..
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Shana A

Quote from: Natasha on December 28, 2007, 08:12:40 PM
Ha ha ha ha .... hopefully it's just me although sometimes my altered ego comes alive and takes over..

Does your altered ego have those cool eyes too?  ;)

y2g
"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." Oscar Wilde


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Lisbeth

"Anyone who attempts to play the 'real transsexual' card should be summarily dismissed, as they are merely engaging in name calling rather than serious debate."
--Julia Serano

http://juliaserano.blogspot.com/2011/09/transsexual-versus-transgender.html
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Wendy

Happy New Year to all and thanks for your feedback.
This material is taken from Wikipedia:
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Dissociative identity disorder (DID), as defined by the American Psychiatric Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-IV-TR), is a mental illness in which a single person displays multiple distinct identities or personalities, each with its own pattern of perceiving and interacting with the environment.[1] The diagnosis requires that at least two personalities routinely take control of the individual's behavior with an associated memory loss that goes beyond normal forgetfulness, and symptoms are not due to substance abuse or medical condition. Earlier versions of the DSM named the condition multiple personality disorder (MPD), which is still used by the ICD-10.
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Schizophrenia, from the Greek roots schizein (σχίζειν, "to split") and phrēn, phren- (φρήν, φρεν-, "mind"), is a psychiatric diagnosis that describes a mental illness characterized by impairments in the perception or expression of reality, most commonly manifesting as auditory hallucinations, paranoid or bizarre delusions or disorganized speech and thinking in the context of significant social or occupational dysfunction. Onset of symptoms typically occurs in young adulthood,[1] with approximately 0.4–0.6%[2][3] of the population affected. Diagnosis is based on the patient's self-reported experiences and observed behavior. No laboratory test for schizophrenia exists.[4]

Studies suggest that genetics, early environment, neurobiology and psychological and social processes are important contributory factors. Current psychiatric research is focused on the role of neurobiology, but a clear organic cause has not been found. Due to the many possible combinations of symptoms, there is debate about whether the diagnosis represents a single disorder or a number of discrete syndromes. For this reason, Eugen Bleuler termed the disease the schizophrenias (plural) when he coined the name. Despite its etymology, schizophrenia is not synonymous with dissociative identity disorder, previously known as multiple personality disorder or split personality; in popular culture the two are often confused.

Increased dopaminergic activity in the mesolimbic pathway of the brain is a consistent finding. The mainstay of treatment is pharmacotherapy with antipsychotic medications; these primarily work by suppressing dopamine activity. Dosages of antipsychotics are generally lower than in the early decades of their use. Psychotherapy, vocational and social rehabilitation are also important. In more serious cases—where there is risk to self and others—involuntary hospitalization may be necessary, though hospital stays are less frequent and for shorter periods than they were in previous years.[citation needed]

The disorder is primarily thought to affect cognition, but it also usually contributes to chronic problems with behavior and emotion. People diagnosed with schizophrenia are likely to be diagnosed with comorbid conditions, including clinical depression and anxiety disorders; the lifetime prevalence of substance abuse is typically around 40%. Social problems, such as long-term unemployment, poverty and homelessness, are common and life expectancy is decreased; the average life expectancy of people with the disorder is 10 to 12 years less than those without, owing to increased physical health problems and a high suicide rate.[5]

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I am aware of what each personality (male/female) does and therefore I do not have multiple personalities.

The doctors have never labeled me schzophrenic but I suffer from depression, anxiety, and paranoia.

I will change my answer to one personality.  However my wife says you don't have to live with "Wendy".

Overall my disposition has steadily improved over the past year and I think I am heading in the correct direction.  I remain unable to explain my gender issues.  I will guess both wiring and environment.

As always thanks for your help.  I will encourage my wife to come on this forum as I have difficulty answering her questions.
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stephm

I voted 0  ;) as I didn't think anyone else would  :-\
I'm just me, not quite whole ----- but working on it   ::)
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lady amarant

As I understand it, we all have at least three or so personalities knocking around in our minds... whether you read psychology or numerology books, we all have a public persona as well as a hidden, inner self, and then a third, childlike self that represents our subconscious. The thing is, our public persona can become so dominant that it subsumes the others and we begin to identify only with it.

This was the case for me for many years, my public, male persona being fed by my shame and fear to the point where I lost touch with the 'other me's'. It took me hurting a very special person to get back in touch with my true selves.

Today I'm quite comfortable with having different aspects of me in there, especially as I learn more about it through sources as diverse as psychology, quantum physics and Huna Magic (Hawaian magic maintains you can only be whole once you find your "younger or animal self" and through it your higher self, all distinct personalities...)


Posted on: 01 January 2008, 11:08:26
As an aside, when I first began to rediscover my inner, female self, I gave her a name, Samantha, and made her real for a time. This allowed me to overcome a lot of the programming society had ... impressed on me, but once she had helped me on my way, she was no longer needed, and gradually faded. Today I'm easing into myself as Simone.

For more info on this, it would be well worth reading some Carl Jung. He is still vastly underrated in just how much insight he had into what makes our psyches tick. Mainstream psychology tends to still simplify everything to either sex or game-theory terms.
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