Some sociologist did a study on fart related humor, from most to least likely to be amused it was straight men, lesbians, gay men, straight women.
My own experience has tended to match this, lol.
As someone who accidentally became stealth over a year ago (my then girlfriend {now wife} and I moved to a new town where we didn't know anyone, I got a retail job for the first time in years, and for the past year and a half I've never been clocked) my biggest problem is lying to people.
I hate it.
So long as I'm not asked any direct questions I'm fine, but certain situations are tough (questions about my daughter for instance).
On this topic is just add that everything the OP mentions are true for SOME women.
The best advice is definitely just be yourself.
Don't tell lies, and when you must, try to know what you'll say ahead of time and STICK to that story, or you'll catch yourself out.
I don't have much long term advice, I've not made any real friends who don't know I'm trans, just coworkers and clients who I don't interact with outside of work.
No idea how I'll handle things if that changes :/
