GCS with McGinn (After so many years waiting)

[Laurie]

Moni, Monica, Mundane, Moanie, anything but 'Him' (Am I allowed to call my neighbor a p*tz?)

  Of course you are M M M Mawnie

[davina61]

Cumugerous old b*st**d, call him by a feminine name

[Jacqueline]

Moni, Monica, Mundane, Moanie, anything but 'Him' (Am I allowed to call my neighbor a p*tz?)

I'll just say what my Mom would have told me. "It's okay, sweetie. She's just jealous."

Yeah, I'm no looking forward to my neighborhood when I start full time.

You seem to be doing great. All things considered. I hope the eye surgery takes care of this nagging issue, as well.

Take care.

With warmth(too much today)

Jacqui

[Rachel]

Hi Monica,

I am very happy the eye surgery worked out. I know it caused you a lot of distress.

So I had my whole glands penis used for my cliterous . It was a bit larger than normally would have been used. It has shrunk a bit since then. Anyhow, the labiaplasty was covering the cliterous. I had extra skin and too much fat where my vaginal canal and lower vagina is. Dr. Mcginn said it was not typical and not optimum as fat is not a good blood flow carrier. The cliteral area I had very tight skin. So my cliterous has tight skin over it so when I go up steps, walk after being seated and see an arousing guy my cliterous gets super sensitive in a sexual way.

[HappyMoni]

So Rachael, I am still confused a little. Is it more sensitive with the clit open or covered with skin(hooded)?

Jacqui, when I came out, I went and talked to my closest neighbors. On the surface, it went well. Of course, one never knows if you are getting the smiley face and really they are wishing you into the cornfield like in the Twilight Zone. It gets a bit silly after a while, so I just decided other neighbors would see the different me and ask if they had the courage. It has turned out fine for the most part. This neighbor I spoke of is a bit of a shovenist, bordering on misogynist. So, I care nothing about his opinion.

Moni

[HappyMoni]

Cumugerous old b*st**d, call him by a feminine name

Davina, I am confused, why would I compliment him with a feminine name?
Moni

[Jessica Lynne]

Davina, I am confused, why would I compliment him with a feminine name?
Moni

Or give him the time of day for that matter.

[davina61]

It was just if he is calling you him call him her, tit for tat.

[Rachel]

The cliterous is much more sensitive now. It is counter intuitive, i know.

[HappyMoni]

The cliterous is much more sensitive now. It is counter intuitive, i know.

By now you must see after all my postings that I am not too bright. You are saying that it is more sensitive covered or hooded than open and exposed. If this is right, and I am not sure, it would make sense that the movement against the soft hooding could cause pleasure as you walk. Maybe you could tell Davina and she could translate and tell me in British so my silly butt finally gets this. Sorry, but I feel like I am on the verge of discovering the holy grail of clitoris' here. lol
Moni
Love you Rachel 

[Rachel]

I think the skin in contact with the cliterous at times causes sensation that is perceived as pleasure. It is not all the time but every time it happened it is pleasurable. Initially when I had my cliterous covered it felt like pressure then it became pleasurable, perhaps when I was allowed to touch and rub the outer skin (healing driven permission).

Maybe it is a learned response or a recycled nerve sensation response.

[SadieBlake]

Rachel, I seem to remember you'd had your first orgasms before you went for labiaplasty? Interesting if it feels different. My clitoris is pretty well buried and I've been enjoying a variety of stimulation, at first only indirectly through the hood, now once I'm worked up I can hold a Hitachi vibe right too it -- not pressing hard mind you -- once I'm worked up

[HappyMoni]

So, am I hearing the hooding is a good thing for pleasure, is that our consensus?  Mine is exposed at this point, but it was mentioned that it might contract some. I am not sure how it could even be done to hood it at this point.
Sadie, I am doing orange now to the same depth as green. It is even okay first thing in the morning. Persistence and patience made it happen. I am still having a lot of numb and sore areas. Not thinking of any playing yet.
Moni

[Rachel]

Dr. McGinn did it at 6 months. There was no cost. The skin to the left and right of the cliterous is opened and stitched over the cliterous. It takes 15 minutes as part of the 6 month check-up. I was numbed ( except one spot, ouch) and the work was done.

Periodically as a point you need to do cliterous maintanance with a Qtip. She will explaine what needs to be done. Mine has always been spotless and moist.

The second to last pic I sent you is the before labiaplasty and the last pic is post labiaplasty by 2 months or so. I was afraid to use after the 6 weeks healing period but now I know it is robust and makes the cliterous very usable and sansative. I still need to have my last proceedure November 20th to close my bottom. So the top 3/4 of my vagina is done. The labiaplasty really made the top 3/4 of my vagina looks nice. Considering what she had to work with I am extreamly happy.

[HappyMoni]

Rachel,
   I will go back and look at the pictures. Thank you. I have an area that I am watching that makes things look kinda odd when I stand up. I mentioned it to Brianna and she says she sees it. I will wait til 6 month to see how things change.
Moni

[Rachel]

Hitachi vibe, I think I will ask Santa for one >   Wow, I think after it is warmed up and less sensitive that may be AWESOME.

[HappyMoni]

So, I went over and talked to my neighbor. I said it was really embarrassing for me to walk out in a dress and  have him out me in front of strangers. He apologized and said it was just so ingrained. I said I wasn't mad but urged him to be aware of how it affects  me. I am pretty sure I saw him looking down at my body a couple times as we spoke which kind of creeped me out.

I was looking  at dilators today and thinking about the angle on all of them. I guess this is for getting under the pubic bone but it seems like it would take more space or internal flexibility to accommodate that bend once inside. It would  seem to make more sense to mimic the shape of the penis (or vibrator in some cases.) I am also hearing folks talk about the dilators getting stuck inside. I guess the suction might cause this to happen. Haven't had this myself.
Moni

[Anne Blake]

That was a strong move going one on one with your neighbor, I have to commend you for taking the high road.

Love you girl,
Anne

[p]

Good for you for talking to your neighbor! It sounds like you were very gracious & measured in your response. I hope that he is able to empathize & to do better!

[AnneK]

I am doing orange now to the same depth as green

Orange is the new black.