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Am I passable enough to go full-time female?

Started by LittleWitchGirl96, June 10, 2017, 03:13:10 PM

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LittleWitchGirl96

I've only been on HRT for a little over a month, but I feel like I'm going to explode if I don't start living as my true self right now. All of my friends and my fiancé tell me that I look straight up like a female, but I need non-biased, honest opinions to be sure. I do realize that I need better hair/ a more convincing wig, but besides that, am I passable enough to go full-time female?









The second picture is of my right side, the side of my face that is more masculine and my biggest insecurity.
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Harley Quinn

At what point did my life go Looney Tunes? How did it happen? Who's to blame?... Batman, that's who. Batman! It's always been Batman! Ruining my life, spoiling my fun! >:-)
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AnneK

I'm a 65 year old male who has been thinking about SRS for many years.  I also was a  full cross dresser for a few years.  I wear a bra, pantyhose and nail polish daily because it just feels right.

Started HRT April 17, 2019.
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pinzandneedlez

You look beautiful, and if that is a wig it looks pretty good

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Harley Quinn

Ok. I see them now. You're not only passable... but you're hot!
At what point did my life go Looney Tunes? How did it happen? Who's to blame?... Batman, that's who. Batman! It's always been Batman! Ruining my life, spoiling my fun! >:-)
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LittleWitchGirl96

Quote from: Harley Quinn on June 10, 2017, 03:40:55 PM
Ok. I see them now. You're not only passable... but you're hot!
Omg haha, thank you so much! :DDDDD
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Doreen

I think you look fine, keep in mine mannerisms, how you talk, how you interact, social skills, your own nerves,  these all add up to being a woman. 
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Angélique LaCava

In the face you look more androgynous, but your body shape doesn't pass in my opinion.

Lay off the highlighter, it makes your face look oily.
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LittleWitchGirl96

Quote from: Angélique LaCava on June 10, 2017, 03:55:46 PM
In the face you look more androgynous, but your body shape doesn't pass in my opinion.

Lay off the highlighter, it makes your face look oily.
May I ask what's unpassable about my body shape? Just wondering.. I've only been on HRT for a moth, so nothing has changed regarding body shape yet.
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Michelle_P

Hi!

Looking at that last picture, I'd say even your waist/hip ratio is starting to become decidedly femme.  Overall appearance looks feminine, so you may be able to pull it off.

Something other commentators need to bear in mind is the vast range of appearance of individuals in either gender.  Look around at women of any given age.  There is tremendous variation, from Twiggy-lean to mildly curved, out to pear-shaped.  Faces have a similar tremendous range.  (There is a woman who has been complaining in the news about transgender folks, and lesbians in tennis.  The first time I saw a photo of her I thought "She doesn't pass.  FFS could do her a world of good.")

Attitude, movement, and posture count at least as much as physical appearance, though, so keep that in mind.  'Passing' in the real world isn't about just how one looks in a photo.  I do homework on passing every day, sitting at a coffee shop outdoor table in the local shopping district and watching people for an hour.  I'm studying presentation, posture, movement, and dress.  I model my wardrobe afte what I consider attractive women about my age that I see. (No sweatpants, or tights/yoga pant and sweatshirt look for me, thankyouverymuch!)

I'd say your physical appearance and age gives you a real flying start, and I bet you could pull it off.
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LittleWitchGirl96

Quote from: Michelle_P on June 10, 2017, 04:43:49 PM
Hi!

Looking at that last picture, I'd say even your waist/hip ratio is starting to become decidedly femme.  Overall appearance looks feminine, so you may be able to pull it off.

Something other commentators need to bear in mind is the vast range of appearance of individuals in either gender.  Look around at women of any given age.  There is tremendous variation, from Twiggy-lean to mildly curved, out to pear-shaped.  Faces have a similar tremendous range.  (There is a woman who has been complaining in the news about transgender folks, and lesbians in tennis.  The first time I saw a photo of her I thought "She doesn't pass.  FFS could do her a world of good.")

Attitude, movement, and posture count at least as much as physical appearance, though, so keep that in mind.  'Passing' in the real world isn't about just how one looks in a photo.  I do homework on passing every day, sitting at a coffee shop outdoor table in the local shopping district and watching people for an hour.  I'm studying presentation, posture, movement, and dress.  I model my wardrobe afte what I consider attractive women about my age that I see. (No sweatpants, or tights/yoga pant and sweatshirt look for me, thankyouverymuch!)

I'd say your physical appearance and age gives you a real flying start, and I bet you could pull it off.
Very good information and very true, I definitely plan on studying and mastering the overall mannerisms of a female before going full-time. Thank you for the insight!
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Angélique LaCava

Quote from: LittleWitchGirl96 on June 10, 2017, 04:08:52 PM
May I ask what's unpassable about my body shape? Just wondering.. I've only been on HRT for a moth, so nothing has changed regarding body shape yet.
its how your stomach is shaped, plus you don't have much hips so it just goes straight down.
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LittleWitchGirl96

Quote from: Angélique LaCava on June 10, 2017, 04:56:47 PM
its how your stomach is shaped, plus you don't have much hips so it just goes straight down.
Yea, I haven't lost my belly fat yet or had any fat distribution to my hips yet, again, it's been a month :) Won't be wearing crop tops 24/7, and not all females have an hourglass figure, that's a crappy society standard :) doesn't have much to do with passing :)
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staciM

I think you look great, and would say that passing for you (as others have said) would come down more to other aspects....walk, demeanor, mannerisms, confidence etc.  Have fun with it.
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LizK

IMHO Passing happens between the ears or not at all. You don't pass until you think you do no matter what anyone tells you. I see thread after thread from beautiful girls asking if they pass....

When you ask the question what is it you are asking? Passing for me may mean a different thing for you...there are various forms of passing from over the phone to a Dr's office. Where is it you want to be?

Many of these threads involve gorgeous girls who just can't see it or have a small imperfection that they feel ruins every chance they ever had to pass. However there are also people here who are convinced they don't just pass but are glamourous...not how I would describe them. So when I say passing happens between the ears what I mean is that you have to have a certain amount of self acceptance in the first place. When you are satisfied you have decided you pass then you will ....
Transition Begun 25 September 2015
HRT since 17 May 2016,
Fulltime from 8 March 2017,
GCS 4 December 2018
Voice Surgery 01 February 2019
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Artesia

I can only see one picture, but it looks like you pass to me.
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September 13, 2016 HRT start date
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Cp500

You look beautiful and with a petite build. I definitely think passable!
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Christine1

Girl don't worry about it. You look great. laCava is just jealous!


Therapy 1-4-2017
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GM#1

You are very beautiful


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