Hi Kodii,
If you have learned to appreciate and love your nonbinary identity, that is totally awesome!
Coming out to family can be a challenge - I am also faced with this as I need to break the news to my 86 year old parents who are politically conservative. I hope my parents will understand, but as they have known me a long time (or think they knew me), I can see where they might need some time to adjust.
By the south, do you mean southern US? Or Argentina, Australia, etc.