"Feminine bodies are meant to be curvy. Not columns/inverted triangles. Now you can say that women also have those body types but society and biology refers to them as masculine."
So if your a woman and somebody says, look what manly shoulders you have, you take that as not passing?
So that's the same as saying a cis woman with manly shoulders isn't a woman?
And with pregnancy, does not being able to conceive, stop a woman being a woman?
Does, playing football to a woman, stop them being a woman?
What if you don't like pink? That feminine, does it stop you being a woman if you like blue?
Im asking these questions, because you mentioned masculine, in description of a woman, or be it one characteristic.
Masculine is not man, nor is feminine female. Characteristics of a woman may be masculine, but this does not stop them from being a woman.
For every characteristic, their is a number of variations equivalent to the total number of individuals that have ever lived. Your hair is your hair, it not a mans, or a womans. You have your hair, and if you are a woman, your hair is a womans not matter what it looks like.
Your shoulders may be broad, but if you are a woman, your shoulders are a womans shoulder, and for aslong as your a woman, you characteristics are the characteristics of a woman.
Masculine and feminine are stereotypes, they do not define gender.
And if you tell me your clocked I believe you. I have no reason to doubt you.
Im just trying to understand why, Your focus is on shedding masculinity, and not on expressing the individual woman that only you can be.
Passing by its definition is giving the power to determine whether or not you count as a woman into the hands of someone ells. And even if, in the instance you meet somebody that passes you, the next person might not. Because those two individuals will see two different masculine, and feminine stereotypes, when they think of man and/or woman.
Every single man on this planet will have attributes that dont conform to masculine, and this is the same for woman and femininity.
If you cut out, everything masculine about yourself, then you will be 100% feminine, this is something that nobody on this planet is or ever be. Unless they have surgeries to conform to statistics generated, But those statistics change for every single person who is ever born.
And if you do conform to femininty you will be constantly changing your face, hairstyle, how you sound, how you talk, how you walk, the lengths of your legs, your style of dress, shoes, the activities you participate in, the food you eat eat, and the portions. And this list is just the tip of the iceburg.
And on top of that you will be the only feminine that exists. Stop giving people the power to hurt you. You are a woman no matter what you look act or sound like. And if you go full guy mode, you still a woman doing what she needs to be safe. But their isn't any point in hurting yourself mentally, in trying to stay safe physically. eg, if you will end yourself in guy mode, then risking you life en fem is safer.
I say, think about yourself, what do you need? eg what can you not live without expressing. Exspress those only in the amounts you need. But please, dont try and please everybody, its impossible, and will only hurt you.
