Quote from: KathyLauren on June 22, 2017, 03:13:45 PM
There's not much that would get me to travel in the States these days.
Please note that this incident occurred in the UK, NOT the United States. The US TSA got a number of black eyes a few years back due to very poor treatment of transgender folks. Since then however, they've spent a stack of taxpayer dollars defining policy, upgrading equipment and training their agents so this crap doesn't happen. I few things you'll find in the US that would have helped in this situation:
1. Upgraded body scanners that have an improved algorithm for recognizing transgender features (i.e. if they mark you as a woman and it finds a penis, it understands and does not alert).
2. You will only be patted down by an agent of the gender you are presenting. If there is any doubt, they will ask which agent you prefer.
3. If you're subjected to a "pat-down" you can request it be done in private and you can bring a witness with you.
4. Your bags will only be searched with you present.
I believe the HRC or someone has a comprehensive list of your rights when dealing with the US TSA that details these and other items. Honestly, I travel all the time in the US for work and have done so multiple times presenting female (even with a passport and drivers license that show me as male). If you plan ahead, follow the rules, respond honestly and don't argue with agents over things they can't control anyway, you'll almost always get through just fine.
In this situation from the OP, I would have told them flat out right away that it was my penis and that I was transgender. I certainly wouldn't have started complaining to them about their equipment. If they did anything that violated policy, I'd have done my best to get through non-confrontationally and then addressed the issues with a supervisor and filed a formal complaint.