Laurie you did inspire me. I will admit I had a brief hesitation getting dressed this morning - literally which closet to use, should I at least pack a male t-shirt and generic shoes just in case. And then I thought about you Laurie as you drive cross-country as your true self. My only carry-on is a small clutch-purse with minimal makeup, phone, keys and cards. No luggage.
I'm on the flight back now. Met their family, more warm and accommodating than I thought was possible for this type of gathering. Not a single awkward question or comment even though everyone there knew ahead of time I am transgender and in a very non-traditional relationship. Met their parents, siblings, an aunt, a younger cousin - several generations and age groups.
I've run around locally in Seattle this way but today is the first time I've consistently heard nothing but female pronouns all day in every situation.
After I was upgraded by Delta to first for the return flight I was expecting my first sir of the day, because the cabin crew has a printed list and mine is still Mister male. When the flight attendant looked at the list, greeted me and asked about drinks etc. - they simply asked without using a gender. No hesitation, no confusion. Very civilized.
The only difference I can think of is I must be carrying myself with more confidence, getting used to myself. Just one professional voice lesson so far (weekly now for awhile) but I already feel less self-conscious about my voice - might be from knowing I can do something about it, even if it's just a small improvement.
