I suppose a reintro is due for anyone that joined recently.
So I have always "wanted" to be female, I can remember going on hols at a static caravan park and the owner saying that a man stayed in the one van and woke as a woman the next morning. Why cant we stay in that van went through my mind, asked my mum why cant the boys wear the summer dresses the girls have for school instead of the shorts we have to wear? Cross dressing in my teens borrowing sisters clothes. Left school at 15 (glad to get out as never fitted in with the kids) and started working in a local garage as an apprentice. Found I had a natural gift for working on cars, joined my hot rod club in 78 and one of the lads drag raced. Looked like fun so did that, met the missus at a party held by one of the club members and they contrived to put us together. She became pregnant and we got married, ended up with 3 kids all wonderful. Took over the garage where I trained but my old boss was the land lord and kick me out , kept doing that to folks till he sold site for housing. Ended up going bust and HRMC made me bankrupt, had to find work so in the end I was an MOT tester for a garage chain. Had my right wrist damaged after an assault by a manager after he had a metal break down, in the end I was unable to work and took early retirement.
Back to the nitty gritty, still cross dressing when I had the chance with the wife's gear watching any gender programs on the TV. Now she had been distant from me since the business finished, 7 years ago there was a closing down sale on at an oversize store and I bought some clothes and shoes. She caught me putting some away and I just blurted it out resulting in me being thrown out, found my flat and been her since. Came out at work without much bother (apart from the eastern European employees) but work were fine. Got on the GIC list and started HRT with joint consent from my GP, wife divorced me due to Irreconcilable actions!! didn't contest as she had been doing my head in for over 10 years. Had GRS just over 2 years ago, made friends with one of my sisters old friends from when they were at school after she fixed my back. Got taken to open mic night and now turn up to play percussion, everyone is fine with me and lovely. Now nearly 69 (any way up!) living on my own, rebuilding my Austin hot rod for the 3rd time, cooking my curries and trying to survive on a state pension. Mission this year is to try (again) to lose weight , note to self not to eat through boredom!
Its been 7 years now since finding Susan's and it was the best thing ever, showed me the way forward. I have had no problem as such ,things fall in place for me at the right time so I never worry about stuff but I have always been positive. As my friend says "trust in the universe"