Well just to update this,
I went to a different urologist who I had originally emailed their office not long after coming out to my SO. Back then the office worker emailed back and said the one doctor will do it. I tried to find the cost over email but never received a response.
So I got an appointment because I was having really bad testicular pains. We discussed the orchi then also. She said pain was not a medical nessecary reason. She sent me to get a sonogram to check everything. It was all normal, except they were a full cm smaller than they were when I had a sonogram about 5 years prior. So I went back for the follow up for the pain. Staying on an older antidepressant that also treats neurological pain like testicle shrinkage.
So she brought up the orchi again. She said since I have a letter already she would have them figure out the self pay cost for it all.
Well this time it's sounding much better than the other doctor who I had contacted. Doctor fee $750, surgical center fee $1700, still waiting on the Anastasia fee from that provider. I think it's actually in range of me getting it done.
First I can get off Spironolactone. Second won't need finasteride either. Third and mainly important, she will sign the documents that I can use to do all my legal changes with!

I can feel it getting within reach!
Than maybe someday I'll be able to afford the full GCS but I'm thinking at least a nose job, finish getting rid of the facial hair, and maybe voice glottoplasty will be first in line. I'd rather get closer to passability first. I'd like to feel complete down there but it doesn't need to be first in line.