bottled it a bit

[davina61]

Had a flat inspection so on my day off spent all morning cleaning (needed it any way) wearing my stripy shirt dress ect , letter said inspection at 1 o'clock TYPO she turned up at 11 just as I was about to change into skinny jeans. Through my breast forms in the draw and chucked on my dressing gown saying I was just changing. Suppose caught me out as not prepared , still had my nails painted blue and wearing rings   

[Laurie]

Davina,

  You probably got away with it, and if they didn't say anything then who really cares anyway? I've been caught out a few times and nothing came of it. The getting pulled over late one night in a strange city by a policeman while totally dressed with makeup on. The only weird question he asked was if I was out trying to fine a good time. If was a bit embarrassing but I was breaking no laws.

Hugs,
   Laurie

[AnneK]

The getting pulled over late one night in a strange city by a policeman while totally dressed with makeup on.

Several years ago, while fully cross dressed, I was pulled over for a "RIDE" spot check.  No problem.

In Ontario, the RIDE program is intended to catch impaired drivers.

[elkie-t]

Once my ex and me were very friendly with our neighbor, and I've been home wearing skirt and she got in (I might forgot to lock the door properly). When I heard steps, I pulled the skirt down (I mean I fully took it off and there were no panties under it) and till this day I have no idea if she saw the skirt or not (well, she did see me that day without any underwear). My thought at that split second was - if she sees me naked, who cares, I'm in my own home, but if she sees me in skirt - she'll know my deep secret, might tell to landlord, who was also my colleague, etc...

We continued to be friends (although she never rushed into our apartment) until we moved out and lost any contact with her.

Oh boy, it was before my coming out, still in my early 20s.

[davina61]

It caught me off guard , was not bothered as they will know soon anyway. Started to push boundaries anyway so folks will be "ready" for me come November

[davina61]

As you may have seen in my posts I didn't bottle it last weekend and for those that have not read any a quick recap-----
So went to the hotrod meeting to camp over next to one of the lads and his wife from my club and with my nails painted and shiny ear rings in told them what's what, no problem. Bought an event T shirt , ladies xl of course and wore it all weekend with a bra, wore my ladies sandals all weekend as well and burnt tops of feet (forgot to cream them!!) said to my friends wife its a shame cant wear the skirt I put in and got told why not so with 3/4 leggings went down to bar and to tent to watch band . No stares or comments apart from well done for coming out. Next night wore my brestforms as well with same result . Made a new friend as well , my friends wife and we parted with girly hugs and got told to bring a dress to the next one!!! One Monday afternoon went to see my mum wearing my girly 3/4 jeans white M&S v neck t bra that showed and a thin hoodie , sandles as well .Decided a bit of make up would be OK as well. On the way out of my building had to walk past scaffolders , 4 hunky lads in shorts no tops and some builders having a break and no stares or titters, So way more confident now 

[davina61]

Went to the Hot Rod club meet last night in the pub, went for a carvery as saved time not cooking anyway it was packed , coach party , family group having a birthday party ect and there I was painted nails, big blue star ear studs, carrying my hand bag and using my purse. Didn't notice any "looks"  and no trouble from the lads . Had to go and pick some mail up from the missis tonight on way home from work , 2 seconds there and I couldn't wait to go. Same old sh*t, miserable cow.

[Shy]

Good for you Davina, nice to see you getting out and about. Don't tell Laurie about a local carvery she'll be on the first plane over here Are you getting used to the bag and purse yet? I just couldn't live without mine now.

Peace and love and all that good stuff,

Sadie

[davina61]

would change the heading but it wont let me , anyway had a good day today and if I had worn a wig ( not bothered with make up) would have been in full Davina mode, jeggings, white T and grey hoodie ( red silky nickers and T shirt bra) sandals, necklace, bracelets, rings  with plum finger nails and green toes (nails I have washed my feet!) the wifes eyes stayed in her head and so with her cousin and it feels so good. Just need a good wig now.

[LizK]

Wow Davina

That is great, getting out amongst your friends like that took huge amounts of courage...good on you

Sometimes I think our own nervousness is our biggest enemy but you sounds like you are handling it very well

[davina61]

TBH I forget about the nails etc. as it just feels normal, tempted to increase the padding in my bra I wear to work a little at a time ----------