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Just came out to my 86 year old parents

Started by Kendra, July 16, 2017, 06:55:37 PM

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steph2.0

Ocular leakage Kendra, and not from looking into the sun.

Just... wonderful.

Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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tgirlamg

Gorgeous Kendra!!!

We had no viewing due to gray skies :(

sure got dark though!!!!

My husband was up in the Bay Area and got to see it though!!!

Onward!!!

A 😀❤️🌻
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment" ... Ralph Waldo Emerson 🌸

"The individual has always had to struggle from being overwhelmed by the tribe... But, no price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself" ... Rudyard Kipling 🌸

Let go of the things that no longer serve you... Let go of the pretense of the false persona, it is not you... Let go of the armor that you have worn for a lifetime, to serve the expectations of others and, to protect the woman inside... She needs protection no longer.... She is tired of hiding and more courageous than you know... Let her prove that to you....Let her step out of the dark and feel the light upon her face.... amg🌸

Ashley's Corner: https://www.susans.org/index.php/topic,247549.0.html 🌻
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steph2.0

Quote from: tgirlamc on August 21, 2017, 11:11:29 PM

We had no viewing due to gray skies :(


This is the best we got in central Florida. I had my old refractor scope set up with a projection screen, but my favorite shot was when some clouds obscured the sun just enough for a stopped-down direct shot from my phone.



Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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tgirlamg

Quote from: Steph2.0 on August 21, 2017, 11:33:33 PM
This is the best we got in central Florida. I had my old refractor scope set up with a projection screen, but my favorite shot was when some clouds obscured the sun just enough for a stopped-down direct shot from my phone.



Stephanie

Very Cool Steph!!! 😀❤️🌻!!!!
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment" ... Ralph Waldo Emerson 🌸

"The individual has always had to struggle from being overwhelmed by the tribe... But, no price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself" ... Rudyard Kipling 🌸

Let go of the things that no longer serve you... Let go of the pretense of the false persona, it is not you... Let go of the armor that you have worn for a lifetime, to serve the expectations of others and, to protect the woman inside... She needs protection no longer.... She is tired of hiding and more courageous than you know... Let her prove that to you....Let her step out of the dark and feel the light upon her face.... amg🌸

Ashley's Corner: https://www.susans.org/index.php/topic,247549.0.html 🌻
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steph2.0

One last thing, then Kendra can have her thread back. Here's some fun data from my weather station. The temperature drop lags just behind the solar radiation...

Steph



Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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tgirlamg

Quote from: Steph2.0 on August 22, 2017, 12:01:20 AM
Here's some fun data from my weather station.

I like you already Steph! 😀!!!!

Onward we go!!!!

Ashley 😀❤️🌻
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment" ... Ralph Waldo Emerson 🌸

"The individual has always had to struggle from being overwhelmed by the tribe... But, no price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself" ... Rudyard Kipling 🌸

Let go of the things that no longer serve you... Let go of the pretense of the false persona, it is not you... Let go of the armor that you have worn for a lifetime, to serve the expectations of others and, to protect the woman inside... She needs protection no longer.... She is tired of hiding and more courageous than you know... Let her prove that to you....Let her step out of the dark and feel the light upon her face.... amg🌸

Ashley's Corner: https://www.susans.org/index.php/topic,247549.0.html 🌻
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Laurie

Hi Kendra,

  That was a wonderful description and a wonderful story. Enjoy your day in Yellowstone tomorrow. I was there a few years ago and a geyser ate my hat. It was a nice felt cowboy hat that my friends in Mizzeri bought for me for my birthday. A gust of wind came up and blew it right off my head and into a geyser near Old Faithful. Sure hope no such mishaps befall you or your Mom and Dad while you are there. and oh, don't try petting the wildlife, they may eat you and we want you back here and back to work.

Hugs for all three of you.

   Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Lucy Ross

 :-*
Quote from: Kendra on July 16, 2017, 06:55:37 PMMy speech therapist had a brutally simple but true observation based on her experience with clients.  This is when you will find out if your parents truly love you.  She has seen a "redneck in a cowboy hat" totally embrace their child coming out as transgender without hesitation.  She has seen people you would expect to understand, just not get it at all.  She has given up trying to predict.  She said just do it and then I will know.

I've read hundreds of stories like that, online and in books.  About half of the transpeople I've spoken with did, too. I wonder how my friends will handle it; they won't freak out, I hope, they're a liberal bunch.  But you never know.

My Mom knew I was wearing her stuff when I was in my teens, I didn't get the whole "cover your tracks" thing.  She never brought it up, I'm pretty certain she'd be supportive of what I'm doing now.  Same with my Dad, once we were done shouting enough.   ;D  "He's what?  Huh?"  They're gone now, though.
1982-1985 Teenage Crossdresser!
2015-2017 Middle Aged Crossdresser!  Or...?
April 2017 Electrolysis Time  :icon_yikes:
July 12th, 2017 Started HRT  :icon_chick:
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KathyLauren

Kendra, that was a beautiful description of the eclipse.  How nice that you got to enjoy it with your parents!  And a great photo to remember it by.

Steph, as another weather nerd, that graph is fascinating!
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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Kendra

Ashley, sorry to hear your weather didn't cooperate.  I wasn't sure with my location - scattered clouds the day before and thunderstorms later in the week.  The day of the eclipse, no clouds anywhere and only a bit of smoke from forest fires in Montana which actually added to the 360 degree orange glow on the horizon.  Got lucky.

Stephanie that's an interesting graph, I'd never seen one.  The temperature drop I experienced seemed more drastic but that's probably due to UV radiation dropping or something like that.  My hands and feet were very cold.  But I have been much pickier about temperature after starting HRT... maybe the estradiol patch needs a warning to wear long sleeve shirt during a total eclipse.

Laurie I survived Yellowstone today.  Didn't see Yogi Bear.  One ornery bison blocked the road in front of my car on the northeast edge of the park (very little traffic there), I waited about 3 minutes for it to pick a lane as it was slowly wandering down the center line... finally found a safe place to drive slowly past it.  The thing turned its huge head and almost touched the car door - my dad's window was open.  Eeek.
Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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Laurie

 Yeah them wild animals wandering around there just don't follow the rules of engagement at all.

Hugs,
   Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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steph2.0

Quote from: Kendra on August 23, 2017, 12:22:37 AM

Stephanie that's an interesting graph, I'd never seen one.  The temperature drop I experienced seemed more drastic but that's probably due to UV radiation dropping or something like that.  My hands and feet were very cold.


A bigger drop makes sense, not only since you were in the area of totality, but also because Rigby is over 4800 feet above sea level. My area had about 86% occlusion, and I'm at 60 feet. Plus, it's Florida in August! When the heat goes down, the relative humidity goes up.

On the other hand, some of it may have been imaginary. Here are the graphs for Ririe, ID, just east of Rigby.



The wind did drop a little, too, but not much.



I was surprised at how light it still was here with only 14% of the sun showing. I'm beginning to think that thing's even brighter than an Atomic Beam flashlight!

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  But I have been much pickier about temperature after starting HRT... maybe the estradiol patch needs a warning to wear long sleeve shirt during a total eclipse.


That's on page 42 of the drug interaction sheets, under "Solar/Lunar/Terran Phenomena."

Geeky Steph [emoji68]


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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HappyMoni

Hey, H.....E.....Y, you mean girls won't let a buddy know you folks are having fun over here? I left this thread when Kendra was telling her very touching story. Now I find out you all are getting all giggly about weather charts and stuff. Really? I guess I'll go out in the backyard and eat worms.
Moni  :o    :(   :embarrassed:






>:-)
If I ever offend you, let me know. It's not what I am about.
"Never let the dark kill your light!"  (SailorMars)

HRT June 11, 2015. (new birthday) - FFS in late June 2016. (Dr. _____=Ugh!) - Full time June 18, 2016 (Yeah! finally) - GCS June 27, 2017. (McGinn=Yeah!) - Under Eye repair from FFS 8/17/17 - Nose surgery-November 20, 2017 (Dr. Papel=Yeah) - Hair Transplant on June 21, 2018 (Dr. Cooley-yeah) - Breast Augmentation on July 10, 2018 (Dr. Basner in Baltimore) - Removed bad scarring from FFS surgery near ears and hairline in August, 2018 (Dr. Papel) -Sept. 2018, starting a skin regiment on face with Retin A  April 2019 -repairing neck scar from FFS

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Laurie

Quote from: HappyMoni on August 23, 2017, 05:25:50 PM
Hey, H.....E.....Y, you mean girls won't let a buddy know you folks are having fun over here? I left this thread when Kendra was telling her very touching story. Now I find out you all are getting all giggly about weather charts and stuff. Really? I guess I'll go out in the backyard and eat worms.
Moni  :o    :(   :embarrassed:


>:-)

I want to watch... I'll bring a shovel...  :angel: :angel: ;D
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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steph2.0

Quote from: HappyMoni on August 23, 2017, 05:25:50 PM

Hey, H.....E.....Y, you mean girls won't let a buddy know you folks are having fun over here? I left this thread when Kendra was telling her very touching story. Now I find out you all are getting all giggly about weather charts and stuff. Really? I guess I'll go out in the backyard and eat worms.
Moni  :o    :(   :embarrassed:


Geek girls only. Everyone else can eat worms.

Sheesh, she leaves us alone so we have to make our own fun, and now she's getting all moanie about it.

Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Cindy

I was just getting ready for breakfast!!

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Laurie

Quote from: Cindy on August 23, 2017, 05:48:23 PM
I was just getting ready for breakfast!!



Don't waste those on her Cindy. Let's go fishing!!
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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steph2.0

Quote from: Laurie on August 23, 2017, 05:53:52 PM
Don't waste those on her Cindy. Let's go fishing!!

Mmmm. Hard to find good gagh nowadays.

And if you don't know what that means, you ain't no geek girl.

Steph


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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HappyMoni

Quote from: Cindy on August 23, 2017, 05:48:23 PM
I was just getting ready for breakfast!!



Oh I see you found my 'Uncle Wigley.'  Ha, take that for a board game reference! My work here is done. Good Day. I said Good Day mean girl geeks!!!!!
Moni
If I ever offend you, let me know. It's not what I am about.
"Never let the dark kill your light!"  (SailorMars)

HRT June 11, 2015. (new birthday) - FFS in late June 2016. (Dr. _____=Ugh!) - Full time June 18, 2016 (Yeah! finally) - GCS June 27, 2017. (McGinn=Yeah!) - Under Eye repair from FFS 8/17/17 - Nose surgery-November 20, 2017 (Dr. Papel=Yeah) - Hair Transplant on June 21, 2018 (Dr. Cooley-yeah) - Breast Augmentation on July 10, 2018 (Dr. Basner in Baltimore) - Removed bad scarring from FFS surgery near ears and hairline in August, 2018 (Dr. Papel) -Sept. 2018, starting a skin regiment on face with Retin A  April 2019 -repairing neck scar from FFS

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Laurie

Quote from: Steph2.0 on August 23, 2017, 07:00:45 PM
Mmmm. Hard to find good gagh nowadays.

And if you don't know what that means, you ain't no geek girl.

Steph

  Do I look like a Klingon or something?
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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