Thank you girls for your support

I just wanted to be clear about the girl working there. It's not that she's a gossip, or that she's nosey or that she's not good at her job. That's not what I'm trying to say. Part of her job (much like yours was Dena) is scanning through all the documents, meaning that there is a chance she will see something. As my real name is both unusual and a name she is familiar with, it is likely she is going to see it when she deals with the paperwork. That then leaves her with a rather big secret and would make things very difficult for both her and I.
Furthermore, the doctor who rang me back was simply saying there is a chance that as the family friend works within the surgery, they can't control possibilities as much as they would like. That's why they recommended I try another surgery. They are more than willing to help me should I decide to go with it anyway.
I just wanted to clear that up a bit with everyone because they were actually very nice and very helpful