Reasons why I dislike my school

[PeterSteele]

Its almost been a year since I moved from Corpus Christi,Tx. I lived in Corpus for one year and loved it. The school was way better and people were so nice. Life was good there, but I messed it up by being always in trouble and my dads work was too far. So, we moved to New Braunfels, Tx. Living here...has been..not good. We moved in around August 20th 2016. The school is full of so many bullies. In September 2016 a girl ended her life because of the bullies at that school. Since I came out to that school from August through December. Then stopped in late December cause I got tired of the hate. They always run past me and say "ew", I'm always talked about to people and I'm called the Emo Transgender. People laugh, point, and stare. Teachers and Staff don't really care and think it's just me faking all this. I barely have friends and they usually are so mean to me and hit me a lot. For their own entertainment. All the kids at my school usually have fights every week, kids are always suspended or in a discipline center. Sometimes cops are out front and no one knows why. Kids there are always on drugs and lost their virginity at like 12. It's not a great school. I've learned from my past of being a trouble maker and I've became more mature in under a year, which I am very proud about it. I wish I could move back to Corpus cause everyone accepted me and was nice. I just took all of that for granted. My fault of course. So yeah, everyday I get dirty looks and no one wants to talk to me. If I try to make friends they always influence the kids to hate me cause they make up all these false rumors. So, cause of all this I have now hidden the fact of being FTM and now just a girl. It hurts, but I do my best to ignore.
Whats your opinions on this school? Any other things you'd like to ask or say? Comment below please, I love reading everyone's comments.
Thanks, 🙂 Have a wonderful day!

[Dena]

I am probably not the one to ask for advice. As I didn't want to be with the guys and the girls didn't want me around, I ended up being a loner and more or less did my own thing. Throughout grade school I had around half a dozen friends but never more than two at a time. Most of the time this worked fine however there was a time they voted non athletic me as team captan of the class base ball team. They did it as a joke but it ended up being a painful experience and I would have rather had them leave me alone.

[PeterSteele]

I am probably not the one to ask for advice. As I didn't want to be with the guys and the girls didn't want me around, I ended up being a loner and more or less did my own thing. Throughout grade school I had around half a dozen friends but never more than two at a time. Most of the time this worked fine however there was a time they voted non athletic me as team captan of the class base ball team. They did it as a joke but it ended up being a painful experience and I would have rather had them leave me alone.

Wow, I am very sorry about all that.

[Wanda Jane]

Yeah, NB is pretty redneck and backwards. I used to live in Schertz. I'm in San Antonio now. One refuge you might try is SAGA, San Antonio Gender Association. We meet the 1st and 3rd Thursday 6-9 pm. It's a real good group. Lot's of FTM's to talk to and get contact info. We have a real good mix. You can look them up on FaceBook or message me for address.

[Tammy Jade]

Being in a situation like yours is horrible but it dose get better. Bullies can be devastating particularly if they have sway with other students. It sounds to me like the school is terrible and the fact they won't support you is really not helping.

There is no magic fix that will make it all stop, just keep being strong and believe in yourself!

School is only a really small % of your life and I have found the world after school is so much more supportive and accepting then idiot bullies who think they can get away with anything because they are minors and won't get in trouble.

I personally think your school sounds pretty bad and I would be trying to get out of there.. are your parents supportive of your transition? Have you spoke to your parents about the issues in at the new school and the possibility of going back to the old school or switching to a different school in the area maybe switch from public to private or visa versa?
Have you told your parents that you know you made a mistake and that you have learnt from it and would like to go back and if your only option is to stay there would they go and give the school administrators a good talking to?


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[elkie-t]

It will end in a few years. Try to keep good grades and get into a college. Generally speaking, college is much more fun


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[elkie-t]

I was constantly bullied and physically beaten through most of my elementary/middle school. Luckily, I moved into a magnet school and became the main geek there. I still had a few physical altercations (mostly lost) but somehow my reputation of a geek protected me from serious consequences and I had good lasting memories of my school years.

What to say. Ignore bullies if you can. Really, their 'ew' means nothing to you! They might have eaten too much sour food and just have stomach problems. Try to excel at something, academically or otherwise. It keeps bullies at bay to a degree and gains you respect from other people. If fight is inevitable, strike with force, preferably first and without fear of consequences (protect your head on the ground and cry as loud as you can to avoid bigger damage). You need to survive, think of yourself as a survivalist


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[PeterSteele]

Yeah, NB is pretty redneck and backwards. I used to live in Schertz. I'm in San Antonio now. One refuge you might try is SAGA, San Antonio Gender Association. We meet the 1st and 3rd Thursday 6-9 pm. It's a real good group. Lot's of FTM's to talk to and get contact info. We have a real good mix. You can look them up on FaceBook or message me for address.

I'm so glad you agree. Thank you so much 🙂