I sort of agree in certain aspects, I made a post on other sites asking questions out of curiosity and playing the devil's advocate card.
The bottom line is I do believe the ban is discrimination in and of itself, and a way to spotlight issues where there previously was not any, such a the bathroom laws.
However, I do/did believe some form of exclusion of transgender people was warranted, not because they are trans, but the medical costs which are involved do not mean some trans people can serve. Every transgender person is different so I don't think total exclusion is okay, some trans people don't seek to transition some physical aspects, some trans people are post op. For those that aren't, I think most people are aware of the demands and stress of the military, the ones who regularly need medication will simply not join because during enlisting they're always on the move, and resources are not going to be accessible at the exact time you need them
I see banning transgender people the same way as banning people with other medical conditions in need of persistent care, like diabetes. If people with diabetes cannot enlist, so should /some/ trans people, as part of health and safety regulation. But do they enlist people with diabetes and provide medical services? If they do then not providing medical care for transgender people would be discrimination.
I like that you people in this thread pointed out the viagra expenses, that answers my question on whether or not the military already paid for medical expenses of their military in some way.
Not only that, but I think people are afraid of how many trans people will join and significantly boost the cost, as it stands the transgender population is about 0.6% in the US (I think, regarding strictly binary folk who seek some form of HRT or SRS), of those not all transgender people will join the military, some will use their heads and not join knowing their own medical limitations.
Overall, it's a hyperinflated issue over some concern that can easily be addressed if you think about it. The overall ban without any form of thought to the specific situations or individuals IS a direct act of discrimination no matter how you look it