Just saying hello

[dee jay]

hello I'm Dee jay
I'm new here, but I used to visit a long time ago and just read the posts.

I've been crossdressing since my mid teens. My girlfriend (Now wife) used to dress me up sometimes during sex etc.
The one day she went toatlly against the idea. Things went from bad to worse, and she ended up being replulsed by the thought of my in anything "girly"
She knew that I sometimes dressed up in private but she never wanted to know anything about it. she really hated anything to do with my crossdressing. It really did make her ill.

But things have changed...

Recently (a few weeks ago) we were going through one of our many rough patches. This one was the worst by a long chalk.
We decided that out marriage was too valuable to end and that our son was far too precious to be dragged through anything legal.
We decided to try and patch a things up.

Now, my CDing has always been a cause of arguments... BIG arguments. So I was very suprised when my wife came downstairs one evening dressed in a PVC dress... One she bought many years ago but rarely wore.... She was also carrying another dress.

I asked what the other dress was for and she said it was for me sadly it wasn't PVC

Needless to say that night we had a great time. We finally got to sleep about 3:30 AM and my alarm was set for 6:30!!!

Something has switched in my wife's brain, and I have no idea what, why or how.

Now she asks me to get dressed. She buys me stuff. We go shoping for clothes for me. We went underwear shopping. She made it clear that she wanted her stuff and I had my stuff, but we did buy a few matching sets. How great it feels knowing that my wife and I are sometimes wearing matching undies
Now I'm kinda kinky... My wife has always been fairly "normal"... One night she "out kinked" me... I never thought it was possible but she out kinked me!!!! I'll not go into details, but I think that I'll be visiting a therapist for a long time to come

My wife has gone from total repulsion to total enjoyment and it happened over night. She's even dressed me in the PVC dress. This was the most special thing that she could ever have done.... Now I have one of my own, hanging in the wardrobe next to her's.

In the space of a few weeks my "stash" has gone from an LBD, a few pairs of knickers and a couple of pairs of tights (PHs), to quite a few dresses (all to short and tight for a man of age and weight), a couple of skirts, some complimentary blouses and TONS of panties and underwear.

I rarely wear male underwear now (Gets a bit risky at work) and my toenails are always painted.
My legs are permanetnly shaved.. this was really special... How nice to shaved legs feel?? I shave my legs more often than I shave my face... Honest I do!!!! I just love the feel when the rub together, and pulling panties up over them... WOW!!!!!

The great thing is now that as long as our son is asleep, I can dress as I want and sit and watch telly with my wife. She'll plait my hair, and we'll snuggle up on the sofa. It's a great feeling having your wife stroking your nylon clad, shaved legs.

Now our marriage still has it's ups and downs. I'm here at 1:43AM because we've had another massive row tonight, but things are a whole load better than they were a month or so ago.

Our biggest worry is our 7 year old son. One day he'll "catch" me dressed. How do I explain it to him?
He's already caught me in tights, and I explained that it was because of the cold and they keep my legs warm.
He hasn't asked yet why my legs have no hair these days.
My mother in law has noticed my hairless legs.. I cycle to and from work and I wear shorts even in the cold...  Mum in law picks our son up from school and brings him home. She noticed, but hasn't said anything.... She had a big long stare though
I'll drop her back to her house in my car still in my bike shorts. My legs were nicely hairly, she can't fail to have noticed by now

So all in all things are looking up.

I thought that I'd pop on here and shout it from the rooftops
After many years it's great to say that I'm a crossdresser with a very supportive wife. I've been so jealous of those who have been saying this over the years, it's great to fianlly be in the luck gang.. I just hope it lasts.... She can be very fickle can my wife

Thanks for listening

DJ

[HelenW]

Welcome, dee jay!!

I hope you enjoy your time here as much as I do,  I'm happy to see you posting here.  I enjoyed our conversation in Chat too.

hugs & smiles
Emelye

[tinkerbell]

Hello Dee Jay and welcome to Susan's!

Thank you for your introduction.  Please take a few moments to get familiar with all the boards of the site, review the site rules before posting, and take advantage of our many resources such as the wiki, chat, and the links listed at the main page.  We look forward to your future posts and participation.  Enjoy your stay

tink

[Suzy]

Welcome to Susan's, dee jay!!  Great to have you onboard.

Though you have had a lot of rough times, many on here would love to be where you are right now.  Please tell us as things unfold.

Again, welcome!

Kristi

[RebeccaFog]

Hi Dee Jay,

   Welcome.  Happy to hear you got a break in expressing yourself.  There is nothing better than being free.


I wish you the best,

Rebis

[Christo]

welcome to susans place dee jay

[Jaiden]

I really liked your story DJ. Welcome to Susans!!   

[cindybc]

Hi dee jay, welcome to Susan's I do pray that you find the answers to any question you may have. There are may wonderful people here who can be of use to you

Cindy

[cjennyb]

Hi Dee Jay,

I am new here too.  Doesn't it feel great just to rejoice in who you are, and be amongst people who will not judge you, but who will understand you, and support you.  I for one gain energy every time I hear of one more person who expresses their true self.

I think your wife sounds wonderful.  What a gift you have.  Enjoy every moment of your new life, and yes it will undoubtedly have its up's and down's, otherwise it would not be worth living.

Hugs

Jenny

[dee jay]

Hello all,
Thanks for the replies.
I mooch around a few other GC/TG forums and many of the people on there are either rude or too busy trying to knock holes in people's stories.
OK a few do like to make stories up, but don't rip 'em to pieces for it.
Others are just not trusting at all. They are very suspicious on almost every newbie.

Here is different. As I've said, I used to visit quite a bit as a guest while back (The forum has changed format since), but it's still the same old Susan's. friendly and inviting. I'm not afraid to post in fear of being shot down in flames.

I'm glad that I found my way back.

As for my wife... Yes she is special, and I love her dearly. We argue like cat and dog, and they get very heated at times. We've been like this for nearly 20 years, so we ain't gonna stop just yet

We had a small row the other day, because I'm becomming "higher maintenance" than she is.
Shaving my legs, painting my toenails, using nice shower gels. The fact that my knicker drawer has prettier things in it than her's doesn't help, but our recent shopping trips are making it slightly more even

So we'll plod along in the same old way, except for the fact that the next time I'm sleeping on the sofa, I'll have nice undies on

Thanks again for the welcome

DJ