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How much energy have you spent worrying?

Started by Denise, August 26, 2017, 11:35:38 PM

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How much energy did you spend worrying about some aspect of transition that, in the end, was unnecessary?

Not enough
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About the right amount
2 (13.3%)
OMG, Way too much
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Total Members Voted: 15

Geeker

I spend a lot of time worrying, and I haven't even started. Mostly I worry about the reaction I'll get from what little family I still associate with.
I'm not out, I'm not on E, unless things change I doubt I ever will be.
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Jacqueline

Quote from: Girlbehindthemaske on August 27, 2017, 03:11:48 AM
off topic but how do i make posts? I am completely new and have no idea what i am doing

Hey girl,

Welcome to the site.

It's not too hard. When you get to the category you want, click on the New Topic button at the top of all the topics. Create a name and your message. Away you go.

Good luck and welcome to Susans.

With warmth,

Jacqui
1st Therapy: February 2015
First Endo visit & HRT StartJanuary 29, 2016
Jacqueline from Joanna July 18, 2017
Full Time June 1, 2018





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Kylo

The main thing I have concerns about is that I predict we're going to see attitudes in the West swing over to the more conservative in the not too distant future. The implications of that for trans people seems easy to guess at - no more acceptance of it in schools, less resources devoted to treatment, less acceptance in general. And that would be in a best-case scenario I imagine.

I could be wrong, but I'd rather not be caught off guard. So I'm going to be extremely careful in terms of presentation and keeping these aspects as private as possible. I might look into getting my medical records taken off the open database here in the UK and the gender changed fully on all of those, a full name and gender change on all documents ASAP, although I wonder of the safety and utility of getting a gender recognition certificate issued by the state. Might be more beneficial to fly under the radar on that one.

Yeah, I'm a little paranoid about privacy and keeping the trans thing under wraps. If attitudes do change they could change very quickly if political upheaval takes place. So far I think a lot of people are tolerating us because they have to, but that doesn't mean if the wind shifts they won't just as quickly turn on us.
"If the freedom of speech is taken away, then dumb and silent we may be led, like sheep to the slaughter."
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Jessica Lynne

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