I decided back in February of this year that I was going to transition, but focus on weight loss first. I was around 286. I originally planned on starting HRT in september, but I did really well with the weight loss so I decided to start it early, I started on July 17th, my birthday. before HRT I was consistently losing weight each week, I was losing 10lbs or more per month! then once I started HRT it got a bit rough. my first week I lost 4lbs, then my 2nd week I gained 2! I was so mad about that, but somehow the next week I ended up losing 7lbs! after that big week though I was stuck at 208 for 3 weeks, until 2 days ago when I weighed in and I finally got down to 204! My goal was 200 by labor day, and it's gunna be close but I hope I can do it! my next goal is to get to 175. I lost weight back in 2006 and 179 was the lowest I got, so I want to beat that and then once I'm there I'll see how I look and feel and then decide how much more I want to lose. Good luck on your journey, you can do it!