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When Standing next to a Cis, what Height of the cis Makes a T/CD/Trans Pass more

Started by sara9mm, August 30, 2017, 09:24:25 AM

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sara9mm

Not to be discriminatory.. but for my own curiosity and the community at large.

When En femme What Height of a cisgender makes one more passable?

Context: Say you are hanging out with (or dating) a Cisgender Women.
What works better in height terms:
Short Cis :Tall cd/t
Short Cis : Short cd/t
Tall Cis : Tall cd/t
Tall Cis : Short cd/t
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Julia1996

Quote from: sara9mm on August 30, 2017, 09:24:25 AM
Not to be discriminatory.. but for my own curiosity and the community at large.

When En femme What Height of a cisgender makes one more passable?

Context: Say you are hanging out with (or dating) a Cisgender Women.
What works better in height terms:
Short Cis :Tall cd/t
Short Cis : Short cd/t
Tall Cis : Tall cd/t
Tall Cis : Short cd/t

It doesn't matter. It depends on your overall look how well you pass.
Julia


Born 1998
Started hrt 2015
SRS done 5/21/2018
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Averyel

If you're talking about passing, then no that won't affect it.

For the purposes of photography, then yes relative sizing can affect things. If you want to appear shorter, get a taller friend and avoid dresses since a dress elongates your silhouette and give the illusion of greater height; if you want to appear taller, wear a long garment, especially one with vertical-running stripes, and a shorter friend. Black makes you look slimmer, white makes you look bigger, etc etc.

Keep in mind these tips have rather minor effects - you might gain or lose at most an illusory inch or so when people are looking at the photo, without taking steps to arrange the scene to produce an actual optical illusion.

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ainsley

I think when I am with my tall cis wife it helps.  She is 3 inches taller than me.
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Ania

Quote from: ainsley on August 30, 2017, 11:04:36 AM
I think when I am with my tall cis wife it helps.  She is 3 inches taller than me.

I'm in the boat of thinking it would be helpful as well. (My SO is shorter than me.)

People naturally notice things that make people stand out. I think in generally how feminine you look is sort of on a spectrum, and people make comparisons based on the people around you as well as their idea of feminine in their head. If you are around people on the higher end of the feminine spectrum you will look relatively lower, and vice versa. I think if your SO is significantly taller than you you will be less likely to be perceived as male.

On a sort of related note, as someone still fairly new to crossdressing and learning a lot, I really enjoy lesbian bars, because I find it really relaxing to not have to try very hard to not be the most masculine looking female in the room. As far as I know no one has ever suspected me there, and it is sort of a more extreme example of having a SO of a different height.
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rose

Try not to be the tallest girl in the group
The short you look the cutest you will appear

I want to ask all of you how much is the average height for cis girls in your country ?


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ainsley

Quote from: rose on August 30, 2017, 09:43:10 PM
I want to ask all of you how much is the average height for cis girls in your country ?

USA is 5'4"-5'5"
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