MtF Tomboy?

[rose]

I recently came to the conclusion that my gender identity is female, and while I like some stereotypically feminine things I also still like a lot of more stereotypically masculine things. Considering who I want to be, I am imagining myself as female but as somewhat of a tomboy. I understand that this doesn't make me any less trans or any less female, but I worry about other people still seeing me as male underneath because of this. For example, I don't have much interest in makeup and I can see myself still wearing more masculine attire at least some of the time (I am looking more to add feminine attire to my wardrobe rather than replacing my old clothing entirely.) I want to note that I don't want to present as a feminine guy, but as a girl with a balance between femininity and masculinity.

I guess I'm also still feeling a little bit like I'm faking, even though I am finding myself happier identifying as a girl. I suppose it just takes time to adjust ones mindset and to break out of the stereotypes that have been dug into my brain for so long.

My friend is like you and people question her being trans for that but she from country where they consider the person trans when she always put make up and nail polish and sexy dresses with long hair

It's dumb

My nature is feminine extra feminine if I have the chance but sometime I love unisex style
But only because I'm force to it I believe when I have my freedom I will always dress feminine styles and wear make up

[Jenny94]

Leila, can you post a link to that video?  I would like to watch it!

Sure - actually I'm a bit worried about posting links to videos, that can have bad consequences right...? The video's called "Am I trans enough to transition...?" =) But her other videos are wonderful too.

L x

[Bari Jo]

Oh, maybe pm to me?  I want to see it at least:)

[Jenny94]

It should just come up if you type "am I trans enough to transition" into youtube =D

[Tommie_9]

MtF tomboy-girl here. Sometimes I like to go out more feminine than others, but my groove is on the non-binary side. I love being identified as female, but I'm not preoccupied by it any more. If someone looks at me and thinks I'm just some girlish looking guy wearing girly stuff I don't give a shi_. Heck, I was bullied about that any way growing up without even trying. I just let me be me whatever my gender mood is on a given day. Good vibes all around!

[Bari Jo]

Lol, totally missed that, will do!

[Cheaney]

This is me too. I don't mind the male I've become but I have always viewed myself as female. I love sports. Played them and coach them now. And I'm not going to give that up. I might ease up on them to learn some things that I might have been too "male" to learn though. I have already had these thoughts myself and I just came to the conclusion that being me is enough. Shoot, I've never really been the true me yet so why not give it a try? I know I won't be super girly but I don't really want to be. That's the great thing about growing up in the country is that all the great women that I was exposed to was really well rounded. And that's something that I admire and try to be.


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